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URGENT ** advice needed please

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  • dottydora
    dottydora Posts: 441 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    I'm so certainly no expert, but if your mortgage is cheaper than rent would be and you don't have equity in your property I would have thought provided you can keep up with the mortgage payments you'd get to keep the house/ I'm sure someone else will confirm one way or another. I would imagine since you have tried so hard to pay that the creditors would be foolish to 'give up' and risk getting no money at all! Hang on in there.:grouphug:
  • patchy987 wrote: »

    thanks for asking, if im honest i feel empty, like i have given up already, hubby has now come home from work and thinks it can be sorted but im still not sure

    At least your DH is there and you are not alone now.

    Renting is possible with dogs and cats, when my abusive ex, long long ago, threw me out, I managed to rent with my dog, two different places. It is possible. Hugs.
    Please do not confuse me with other gratefulsforhelp. x
  • patchy987
    patchy987 Posts: 433 Forumite
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    At least your DH is there and you are not alone now.

    Renting is possible with dogs and cats, when my abusive ex, long long ago, threw me out, I managed to rent with my dog, two different places. It is possible. Hugs.

    i used to rent with just the 3 cats but it was so hard to find somewhere nice, plus we would be paying out even more than now to rent somewhere, i just dont know what to do anymore

    anyway i have to turn the pc off now as hubby needs it but any more help would be great and ill check back in the morning.

    thanks for all your help so far everyone
    trying to lose 3 stone by end of 2014;)
  • Keep the faith! :)
    The World come on.....
  • Charco_2
    Charco_2 Posts: 1,677 Forumite
    I'm 100% sure you'll be able to work it out... If not in this IVA then some other way. Hang in there ALWAYS, problems can escalate sure but i've never known a problem yet that cant be solved - maybe not ideally/perfectly but certainly adequately!
    Would you ask the wolves to look after the sheep?
    CCCS funded by banks
  • Hoping someone will have some good advice today, have you posted in debt free wannabe on the "ask a CCCS counsellor" thread, or have you phoned national debtline?
    Please do not confuse me with other gratefulsforhelp. x
  • Charco_2
    Charco_2 Posts: 1,677 Forumite
    The OP is already in an IVA so i dont think those two companies will be of much use or even interested in the problem - unless the IVA is actually with one of those companies! Cant hurt to try the DFW forum tho to look into ways to cut costs and hopefully catch up the backlog as quickly as possible
    Would you ask the wolves to look after the sheep?
    CCCS funded by banks
  • Charco wrote: »
    The OP is already in an IVA so i dont think those two companies will be of much use or even interested in the problem - unless the IVA is actually with one of those companies! Cant hurt to try the DFW forum tho to look into ways to cut costs and hopefully catch up the backlog as quickly as possible

    Thanks, it was all I could think of at the time that might be of any help.
    Please do not confuse me with other gratefulsforhelp. x
  • patchy987
    patchy987 Posts: 433 Forumite
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    thanks for yesterday guys,

    still no answer though as the person who deals with our case wasnt there today so got to wait till tomorrow
    trying to lose 3 stone by end of 2014;)
  • Nargleblast
    Nargleblast Posts: 10,763 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Debt-free and Proud!
    Hang in there, nothing in life or on this planet is worth topping yourself for. You can and you WILL sort your debt problem out and be debtfree one day in the not too distant future.
    One life - your life - live it!
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