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Sallyx's Sink or Swim, Swimerdy Swim Diary ;)

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  • redsquirrel80
    redsquirrel80 Posts: 12,457 Forumite
    I've got to say Sal, I can't remember you ever really talking about your ex with much affection, it's obvious you care about him but I can't remember you mentioning anything nice he'd done for you or you'd done together... but you can practically feel the warmth through your words when you mention R :grinheart
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  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    You're right Squizz...mainly because since Ive been a member on here Ive been trying to hold my marriage together and cope with numerous affairs. Not surprised don't hold much affection really, he took that away when he said he didn't love me anymore!

    R is just well *sigh* everything I could ask for really...I said to him earlier that I was having a carp day because of ex but didn't want to involve him as it was my mess to sort out...his reply was that we would talk about it tonight as he didn't want me to suffer in silence and cared too much to see me sad :) Couldn't ask for more really!
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • Gemmzie
    Gemmzie Posts: 14,876 Forumite
    He sounds like he's cut out of the same mould as mine - isn't it refreshing to find that all those things you wish for in a partner are possible. Glad it's all going so well and I'm sure his parents will love you :)
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  • redsquirrel80
    redsquirrel80 Posts: 12,457 Forumite
    Yeah I meant to add not surprising really! Even when we didn't know all the details he never came across as the most supportive partner.

    Ahhhh to R :)
    Debt@16.12.09 £10,362.38, now debt free as of 29.02.2012.
    "I cannot make my days longer so I strive to make them better."
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    oooo I have butterflies, lol
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • Pooky
    Pooky Posts: 7,023 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    It's always nice when someone else finds out that relationships can be that good....there's always an element of doubt until you've got it.

    And good for R for wanting to talk this through with you - as part of a couple you are both involved and what actions you take affect both of you.
    "Start every day off with a smile and get it over with" - W. C. Field.
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    One thing Ive learnt and promised myself was that this time I wouldn't settle for second best....

    He is a total Gem :) (well Im sure at some point there will be something that annoys me but for now, he's just perfect!)
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • Verbatim
    Verbatim Posts: 4,831 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts
    Glad to hear that happiness and romance have found their way to you Sally.
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  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    Ah Sal,
    It makes me so so so happy you are happy.
    x
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    Perfect evening :) Roll on Sunday....

    Maz and I have a little bet going against him at the moment £5 and she thinks he will mention marriage in the next 2 weeks....ha bloody ha Maz, you so aren't going to win lol:rotfl:
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
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