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Sallyx's Sink or Swim, Swimerdy Swim Diary ;)

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  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    Plan away bun :) we had quite a few deep and meaningful conversations last night lol, from moving in together, buying houses, wills and being involved in his childrens lives, him asking if mum would have bea for a week later in the year so he could take me away for some time out. I tell you there isn't much we haven't talked about lol

    well ok marriage, so I'm still on to win that £5 :)
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    oooooh, how exciting!
    How long will the D take???

    Need to save if its going to be in Italy :)
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    Well, Bea will be flower girl obviously...

    How many bridesmaids do you want?? LOL
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    Should take 12-14 weeks as long as he doesn't contest it! Just want it all sorted! I think you will have plenty of time to save so don't you worry it's not going to happen anytime soon lol! Let's face it as much as we both know we are soul mates we've only been seeing each other for less than 3 weeks lol. Lots of time for that exciting dating, missing each other and making the effort, the last thing I want is to jump into boring mundane everyday life and miss out on the honeymoon period :)

    So fingers crossed that b likes him later when they meet, going to be very informal and we shall just be friends so not to upset or put too much on her too soon
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • LouiseJ
    LouiseJ Posts: 11,156 Forumite
    Sally, everything is happening so quickly, in a good way though:)

    My OH told me I was his soul mate the other night........I was so touched as he NEVER talks like that. We also had a very surreal discussion about whether either of us is allowed to date other people when in heaven as our wedding vows do only say "till death us do part":rotfl:
    But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.
  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    Is it that fast then Sal? Wow, I thought it took years!

    Hmmmmm, what colours do you like Sal?

    *checks out bridesmaid dresses*
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    If I wanted to file under irrroconcilable differences then it would be 2 years. If i file under adultery or unreasonable behaviour it can be that quick! Realistically 6 months though I guess

    Colours, well for a nice summers evening something light coloured :)
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,790 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    This makes me feel all warm & fuzzy.
    Max did good :grin:
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  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    She did bloody excellent but I think shes getting a bit sick of hearing us both harp on lol
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • spud30
    spud30 Posts: 16,872 Forumite
    *is very excited and so happy for you Sal :T :D

    Will start looking for a new hat :j
    Is it better to aim for the stars and hit a tree or aim for a tree and land in its branches :think:
    Loves being a Wonderbra friend :kisses3:
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