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Hypno's "me, me, me, me, me," diary.....

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  • Keeping_Motivated
    Keeping_Motivated Posts: 3,653 Forumite
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    Hi Hypno I'm really pleased the mortgage is pushing through now. Just a thought but even if you change it to your name would that still give OH legal claim should the 'wind change' IYSWIM while you are still married?
  • hypno06
    hypno06 Posts: 32,296 Forumite
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    Oh yes, nothing is done and dusted for some time yet - this is just the first stage in a very long set of processes.....

    It is, however, one step in the right direction.
    Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
    Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)
  • Verbatim
    Verbatim Posts: 4,831 Forumite
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    Glad the offer has come.
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  • taxi73
    taxi73 Posts: 20,815 Forumite
    Great news on the mortgage Hypno.xxx Have a great night tonight with your friend.
    Shaun well done on stopping smoking.
  • macgirl
    macgirl Posts: 5,091 Forumite
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    hypno06 wrote: »
    Knowing my luck, though, something will crop up, so I won't get too carried away just yet.

    Baby steps......
    hypno06 wrote: »
    Oh yes, nothing is done and dusted for some time yet - this is just the first stage in a very long set of processes.....

    Don't think like that. You have already overcome some giant hurdles - never mind BABYsteps - yours are great giant leaps for (wo)mankind! ;)

    The fact that you are even still considering the MFiT challenge is to be applauded. Most people in your situation would have thrown the towel in :T

    Instead, you have sent your children off to follow their dreams (on trips YOU largely paid for) and not sat there sobbing, feeling sorry for yourself, but worked damned hard to not only keep a roof over your heads - but bloody well decorate that roof too! To cap all that you have remained friends with OH and dignified throughout. :A

    I think you've been through the hardest stuff, so be positive - all will be well from hereon in :)

    Have a great night tonight - you really do deserve it x
  • hypno06
    hypno06 Posts: 32,296 Forumite
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    macgirl wrote: »
    Don't think like that. You have already overcome some giant hurdles - never mind BABYsteps - yours are great giant leaps for (wo)mankind! ;)

    The fact that you are even still considering the MFiT challenge is to be applauded. Most people in your situation would have thrown the towel in :T

    Instead, you have sent your children off to follow their dreams (on trips YOU largely paid for) and not sat there sobbing, feeling sorry for yourself, but worked damned hard to not only keep a roof over your heads - but bloody well decorate that roof too! To cap all that you have remained friends with OH and dignified throughout. :A

    I think you've been through the hardest stuff, so be positive - all will be well from hereon in :)

    Have a great night tonight - you really do deserve it x

    Thank you. Thank you very much :kisses3:
    Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
    Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)
  • boredofbeingathome
    boredofbeingathome Posts: 15,657 Forumite
    Great news Hypno :)
    Blackadder: Am I jumping the gun, Baldrick, or are the words 'I have a cunning plan' marching with ill-deserved confidence in the direction of this conversation?
    Still lurking around with a hope of some salvation:cool:
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,944 Ambassador
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    Great news :grin:
    I had a seperation agreement drawn up which legally meant my ex then had no legal claim on the house.
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  • The_Dragon
    The_Dragon Posts: 9,749 Forumite
    Wonderful news on the mortgage being basically sorted - but will you need to get you OH to sigh something to say that he has no further claim on the house?
    Do not meddle in the affairs of Dragons, for thou art crunchy and good with catsup :D
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  • macgirl
    macgirl Posts: 5,091 Forumite
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    hypno06 wrote: »
    Thank you. Thank you very much :kisses3:

    No need for thanks. You did it all by yourself :)
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