lilmissmup - the 2010 chapter!

Souk08

Hey, I am also a regular sufferer of this condition of which you speak. It's agony!!!

Ach we're all different love and I obviously must be a boy. I just want them to do what they're doing then go and give me peace. If I get them to stay it's only so we can do it again in the morning!!!!

Anyway you don't need a man, you're doing fine on your own. The sex is nice though but if it's too much of a kerfuffle then you might just have to do without! X

stacy

Lilmiss it only lasts 24 hours with you, lucky cow! mine lasts a whole week!! I used to go to docs to get antibiotics which the pain when weeing goes after a few hours but last time i got some powder stuff from boots and it still hurt when peeing 3days later lol although it did sort the issue after the complete course.

May be you should just ask him out right coz you obviously want to know if he is seeing someone else ect then decide what you want to do after that, wether to keep seeing him or move on, find someone else.

He might just be on the dating website to meet girls to sleep and have a bit of fun with, with no intention of getting into a relationship, so think you should just ask him.

lilmissmup

Thats what I am afraid of Stacy but it was match I met him on so he had paid to meet people too like me, if he just wanted sex there are loads of free sites.

I am not gonna let it drag on forever but I need to be realistic, I have only met him 4 times over 4 weeks so its not like I have been doing this forever without an answer, just gonna give it a bit more time.

I have told him I am not just after sex but I am not after a heavy relationship anyway so dunno why I am getting my knickers in a twist really!

Souk08

My mouth is taped shut!

lilmissmup

LOL Souk, I am not as upset as it may come across, I am ok bout it. I need to start thinking of me again, good weekend planned anyway next weekend, am defo out Saturday with some of the work girls and seeing Chippendales then drinkies after.

Might be out Friday too but not sure yet, if not might see IM2.

Souk08

You do need to think of you lady.

Okay have been wanting to post this for ages but haven't in case you take offence. Well I don't mean it offensively and I think you know that by now so here goes... I know you want a man just now but I see you as getting married, having your kids and all that...and then maybe looking back wistfully on these fun times! You want marriage, kids and all that malarkey and I truly beleive that will come your way but before that why not just enjoy some time out, learn what YOU like and IF you can handle it have a bit of fun instead of stressing about it and panicking! You wont get this time back X

lilmissmup

Souk sweetie I would never take offense at you as I know you mean well and I love your honesty as I try to be as honest with people as I can be too!

TBH I do defo want kids, not sure on the whole marriage deal never have been, living with someone is enough for me but guess not met the right man yet to make me think differently.

I know your right hun, I would love to be out dating lots of men if I could but the thing that is I only have IM2 to think about which is annoying, I am quite a jealous girl, though I am not jealous of him seeing someone else, more jealous that hes having more fun than me.

Sounds stupid, I need to do something to make life more fun but am looking forward to next weekend for sure being with my mates, doubtful will see IM2.

Souk08

Basically what you are saying is 'I need to get a hobby!'. You know what I mean, to stop you from focussing on this guy who I'm sure is perfectly nice but is also the first guy you've been with since the ex and tbh could be anyone and you'd still be focussing on him because that's where you are right now IYSWIM. XXX

lilmissmup

Yeah I know what you mean hun, I like him but theres also things I am unsure about but he is only man around right now, maybe I will meet a nice man or two when out next weekend with the ladies.

I know I shouldn't get with the first guy I have slept with since ex and maybe thats how he feels too as only recently single.

Part of me would like him to quit on us so I don't even have to think about it, I don't like being so emo and dealing with this !!!!! I am always the dumpee not the dumper as never good at walking away, am really grateful to ex for leaving me now as I think I would just have got really unhappy!

Souk08

Do you have to have one at all? (Just asking)