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ziggles50

lilmissmup wrote: »

He is defo good at the fun bit, just so zigi can make this large and in bold......we broke the 4 times record and made it 5 last night

Oh and I hope all us singletons have a great valentines, I shall be spending it eating and watching telly and loving the most important person.......me

5 times you lucky thing!

I agree with you wholeheartedly. You are the most important person in your life! I'll be sitting about at home being moody since i've got a cold, am FWB AND manless and living with the parentals :-(. Cue excuse to eat carp and drink wine!

stacy

lilmissmup wrote: »

Oh and I hope all us singletons have a great valentines, I shall be spending it eating and watching telly and loving the most important person.......me

Here, here to that lilmiss!!

lilmissmup

Thanks ladies.

I am starting to get a bit crazy living at home again already, its a tad annoying as can't bring any guys back here but cant just move out to rent again esp cos of two cats.

Must keep on saving!

Zigi hope you feel better soon

I am gonna be spending valentine looking for another guy I think.

I know a couple of you will shoot me for getting upset about it but I can't really handle IM2 dating others as well as me so think I need to get out before I get burnt cos I don't think I can talk to him bout it either as its not been long enough and its his life he can do what he wants obv!

Its really made me feel low tonight and I think I am only going to keep getting more attached to him and its a shame cos I have loads in common with him and the loving is great!

Still gonna see him Tuesday but defo need to find another guy who is happy to date one girl at a time as just feel with him he could drop me at anytime and I am enjoying the male company too much to want to be alone for long now.

Shoe_Gal

Do what feels right for you - there will be no judgement from me :A

lilmissmup

I know SG.

I really like him so don't want to end it I think I need to maybe give it another week or so and then try and ask him what he wants after we have spent some more time together but I am scared of what his answer will be, if he says hes just happy with the way it is that will prob upset me or if he thinks oh well I will just date someone else that will defo upset me.

I have told him before I am not just looking for sex cos really I only know one person I would feel comfortable enough to be like that with and thats my welsh friend as we both fancy each other rotten but have nowt in common in relationship wants.

Guess its kind of a confidence thing, I think if he is still looking whats wrong with me, why aren't I good enough even though I have been looking too, just dont think I have been looking like he has!

He was in a relationship for most of last year so I understand him wanting to look around though, both of us started seeing each other quite oon after we joined but I don't have any other potentials at all which is upsetting me too as wonder how others manage it.

Sorry feeling totally $hite tonight

ziggles50

Oh babe it's ok. Don't feel low- Keep looking but don't compromise what you want in the process. Can only end in tears.
Or you can join my team- it's called BOYS ARE STUPID!
It's also ok to be manless for a bit while you look for mr right- even if you are a bit of a nympho right now :-) lol!
Ok rambling now- nw hot toddy taking effect so i'll stop there before we get deeper into 'boys are stupid' territory :-)

Shoe_Gal

lilmissmup wrote: »

Guess its kind of a confidence thing, I think if he is still looking whats wrong with me, why aren't I good enough even though I have been looking too, just dont think I have been looking like he has!

Cos I know Souk is working tonight I have to say, on her behalf, don't put yourself down like this :mad:

Or, as Lula would say, you are F Fabulous

ziggles50

What shoegal said! Give yourself a loving kick up the back side and remember to tell yourself i'm beautiful damnit!

Shoe_Gal

ziggles50 wrote: »

What shoegal said! Give yourself a loving kick up the back side and remember to tell yourself i'm beautiful damnit!

What she said too

lilmissmup

No problems with being manless again, managed it for six months before IM2 but yes the sex is making me want more of it!

Like I said still gonna see him Tuesday and hope the more time we spend together the more he might like me, tempted to not go on match for a week or so unless someone messages me first to see if that brings out any difference in him too, no clue if he has been checking if I have logged on, can't tell. No new guys have looked at it for a week or so but the counter is still going up so someone is looking back at it.

I am prob not helping IM2 by adding views to his each day if he thinks its others lol.