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lilmissmup - the 2010 chapter!

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  • Souk08
    Souk08 Posts: 3,240 Forumite
    Good for you oh and enjoy your night!
    'The road to a friends house is never long'
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    I plan too Souk, I need to get a good nights sleep tonight as am sure work will be ballistic tomorrow too and won't sleep well tomorrow probably cos of being in another place etc.

    No news on other job but too busy/tired to even look for anything else at moment so that will have to wait a month or so I think as things should be calmer at work then!
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • Souk08
    Souk08 Posts: 3,240 Forumite
    Hey lady, how was your night? I had a date but he wasn't sexy so won't be seeing him again like that. FWB came round tho and met an old uni mate so had a lovely day anyway. X
    'The road to a friends house is never long'
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    Night was good, just hung out at his, had to crash over as too far to get back, had more fun though not as much as other night lol.

    Not sure when/if will see him again although do want too, need a back up man though.

    No attention from any of the other match guys this week.
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    Hello ladies.

    I have spent way too much money again this weekend....I don't have enough to cover my brace payment this month now if I don't get my house deposit back within 2 weeks.....:o

    Keys got handed back on Friday though the woman forgot to show up so had to chase her down, then she told my Dad the landlord isn't very nice about deposits, if I don't get the whole £600 back I will be livid....:mad:

    Went shopping again yesterday and spent on my credit card which now has about £300 on it...another reason need that cash back and then went to cinema in evening to see Sherlock Holmes....mmmm to Robert Downey Jnr!!!! Good film too.

    Been spending a bit more time on POF as need to get another date or two arranged, texted IM2 a bit yesterday to see if he got to Liverpool ok and then after i saw the footy result as they won but still not overly sure on him.

    He defo has a purpose at the moment but don't think we will last too long so need more fun planned! :p

    I have realised recently how unhappy I must have been with ex, I don't think I have ever laughed so much as I have these last few weeks, makes me feel a tad annoyed at myself for thinking I could even have had a child with him, how unhappy would I have been then! :o
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    God I wish I could drive...IM2 text me asking did I want to see him tonight but I can't as cannot get back to work in morning as on early shift this week bah need a man who lives nearer.
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    No, you need to learn to drive :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
    Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56
    Weightloss : 0/34lbs
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    Finding a new man would be cheaper and quicker.:rotfl:

    Its annoying when the sex carrot is dangled in front of you then cruelly taken away :p.

    I wasn't expecting to see him until next weekend so was ok with that lol.
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • ziggles50
    ziggles50 Posts: 714 Forumite
    Haha oh dear! Poor thing. I'm just as bad in negotiations with soon to be not ex-FWB as to new terms and conditions of meeting up.
    Hope you get your deposit back soon. Hate waiting for money thats mine!
    Blessed are the poor in spirit: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven
    Matthew 5:3
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    Yeah I am desp for that cash!!!

    Ex MIL text me today asking if I had exes birth cert as he needs it, I never saw it when we were together and wouldn't have kept it.

    I did then send him a message on FB to say I didn't have it, hoped he was ok and guess he is looking into travelling now then, good for him if he is, I didn't mention anything personal just I was looking for a new job and planning a birthday holiday.

    Its at a level now where I think we could maybe be sort of friends in the future, by sort of I mean odd emails etc cos I am not in love with him at all anymore, and thats a great feeling, tbh I can't believe I am so over him in such a short time!

    Would have been even shorter time without all the mind games!
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
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