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lilmissmup - the 2010 chapter!

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  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    Just got dumped (well as much as you can) by IM2, cancelled on me for tomorrow night and then rang him just to get the tone of his voice and he was like yeah I will text you sometime and then went.

    Knew it wasn't right which was prob why I was getting so upset, I knew my gut feeling was right.

    Oh well. Number deleted.
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
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    You ok hun? :(
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
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  • but the main thing is lilmissmup that you had a good time before that ;)
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    Yeah will be fine. Bit narked but it was never gonna lead to anything cos we weren't compatible really, just more annoyed he ended it with me when I knew it wasn't working and should have got in there first.

    Love it how he was like yeah I will text you sometime..... so polite but totally untrue, his number has been deleted from my phone anyway so he has to text me to get to hear from me again but i know for 100% he won't!

    He sounded pretty arsey on the phone though not sure why, not like I have done anything wrong apart from be myself, he might have seen a few wobbly statuses on facebook last couple days but nothing with him mentioned.

    Out of curiousity I went on his match profile (whilst not logged in) and guess what he has been on it since that text and very very brief like 10 sec chat so oh well, I knew it was gonna end really but rejection is never good even when your not that keen!
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • Bowski_1011
    Bowski_1011 Posts: 1,041 Forumite
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    Hi LMM.... I've just caught up on the last few weeks, couldn't believe what I was reading...good on ya!!!! I think you've had sex more times the last month than I have the last 4 years haha!

    I am so so so so glad you're feeling better about your ex, I knew you'd get there!

    I wouldn't worry about IM2, you've had a fun few weeks with him and there's plenty more fun out there to be had and the next one might want the same as you, it doesn't sound to me like IM2 wanted the same. But don't think that's any reflection on you atall... everybody want different things.

    I'm back on facebook, will add you next time I go on.

    Take care
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  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    Bowski :D:D:D:D

    Glad your back hun!

    I will be ok, plenty of reasons why we would have never worked, a lotmore than why we would though we did have some things in common.

    I have kept him on FB for now as didn't want him thinking I am bothered, its weird I am not really, if I am honest the height thing was something that would have totally embarrased me in introducing him to people, sorry if that sounds shallow but when your only 5ft 1 and the guy is your height at most its not great! :o

    Guess its just a bit weird cos he was first person I had been with since ex who I was with for so long.

    Will have such a busy day at work today by tonight I prob won't care anyway lol!
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • doodledo_2
    doodledo_2 Posts: 4,676 Forumite
    Morning chick been ages since I caught up with you.

    Sorry it didn't work out with IM but sounds like you had fun on the way :D
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  • mariagti
    mariagti Posts: 3,207 Forumite
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    Sorry things didnt work out with you and the IM.

    But like the others said you've had lots of fun on the way and more to come finding a better man!
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  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    Hope so, feeling better this evening though had a bit of a down day but yes your all right, more fun to be had along the way hopefully!

    Rejection still sucks though!!!!
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • Souk08
    Souk08 Posts: 3,240 Forumite
    Hey lady, rejection is carp! I had a slight wobble myself on Monday as one of my FWB's text to say he was seeing someone so wouldn't be around. Been having fun with him for nearly a year and the sex was AWESOME so was a bit like oh great. Only saw him once a month or so but it was fun and I do like to have a few regulars on the go! We never discussed other people but I assume/hope he had some on the go too but they were all casual. Have a funny feeling it wont be the last I see of him though!

    Anyway onwards and upwards, pretty boy is coming round tonight and have a date on Saturday and next week. Chin up chick and it's not you, it's just what he wants! XXX
    'The road to a friends house is never long'
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