lilmissmup - the 2010 chapter!

lilmissmup

Goodo, not gone completely crazy after last night then!!!

I am chatting to a mate right now too who is my guardian angel and shes made me feel better just wish I hadn't said a few things to the ex last night, I made out I was chatting to guys more seriously than I am, said I had a date when I don't so thats stooping to his game playing really.:o.

Mate said he has done worse and I did actually tell him in my email back I told him a lie but if that was what finally got him to admit what he did I guess its not the worst lie ever told.

Souk08

Honey, you just need to cut contact and find other things to occupy your time, whatever they may be ....XXX

doodledo_2

Afternoon chick.

He is still playing games with you, he doesn't like the idea of you moving on in my opinion.

You have come so far in the last few weeks don't let him drag you back. If he wants you back then he will sort his !!!!!!.

xx

mariagti

lilmissmup wrote: »

Was all pretty much the same again, he still likes me but doesn't know what he wants from life, I told him I had joined match.com etc and he said he didn't want to loose me and would think about things and email me and not to give up on him just yet.

:mad::mad::mad::mad:

Normally, i wouldnt say anything about your ex etc but reading that i cant help but say something.

From me looking in from the outside it really sounds like his taking you for a ride. And trying to control you even though your not together!

He said he doesnt want to loose you.....but he ended it and left you didnt he?

His going to think about things and email you back!.....so he wants you to hang around and stay single so if he fancies he can have you back if he wants to.

Dont give up on him yet!.... Thats just giving you the guilt trip to make you feel sorry for him.

His mucking you around hun, after 6 months he still hasnt decided if he wants you back or not!

You deserve someone that loves you and wants to make you happy. sorry if i ranted its just grrr.

xxxx

lilmissmup

I agree with you all don't worry, he said in his email that he realised he was playing games even if he didn't mean too and that he would stop.

I do geniunely believe he misses me but he said he hasn't tried to move on which I find odd cos he left me.

I know I should take anything he says with a pinch of salt, doodles your right he would sort his !!!!!! together if he wanted me but I know he won't and tbh I don't want him too cos I know it won't work, I don't want to change him, hes just not the guy to have a family etc with cos if he hasn't realised in six months he wants that with me he never will.

I also bet hes not as innocent and lonely as he makes out! :rolleyes:

Anyway Batman Boy deleted me off Facebook today so back to the drawing board for sure :rolleyes:

Shoe_Gal

:j you sooooooooo have the right attitude at the moment, well done you

doodledo_2

Batman boy, is that the one you showed me??

You are so right, I know you loved him and I am not going to slag him off as I don't know him from Adam from what you have told me and what I know of you, you deserve way better than him

lilmissmup

Thanks you two, I am glad you think I am being positive at least! Just still have these set backs but I guess I am sort of allowed when its not quite six months since we split yet and were together 11times that long!!!

Yeah doodles batman boy was that one :rolleyes: Shame really but oh well.

I am currently waiting on Pizza Hut cos I felt I deserved a fat treat to cheer myself up .

Just wondering when the next contact from ex will be, hopefully less now I have told him I am looking to date.

Then again feel a bit harsh for telling him that, just wanted him to realise in his own head though what he wants.

doodledo_2

Oh well his loss I say, to both of them.

Don't feel guilty in anyway shape or form. He is still trying to control you, he wants you to sit there waiting for him. I say sod that!!

lilmissmup

Yeah why do men do that though, or people really, I have never done the whole I don't want you but don't want anyone else to have you thing so don't understand it!