** Hump day Wednesday 23rd Dec Chat**

bookseller1980

spud30 wrote: »

I am indeed Bookie. All shopped, wrapped and have a house full of food and booze (just for the 4 of us ).

How about you hun? You got much left to do?

Just a few parcels to wrap and the cooking of course.
Odd to have all this time.

sallyx

Afternoon...
Glad to see that everyone is organised...I can't be arrsed to do anymore, feel bad as B is very excited and am trying to smile and be happy for her.

Can anyone give me a slow cooker recipe for chicken thighs/legs?

LouiseJ

Sally, just stick "The Snowman" on for B and have a rest.

sallyx

LouiseJ wrote: »

Sally, just stick "The Snowman" on for B and have a rest.

trouble is if I rest my mind whurs and its exhausting. I never realised how exhausting it is I just want to be back to the old me...how can I possibly change overnight into this wreck

tenmah

Hugs to you Sally. It is a horrible feeling isn't it?

I have just been told I can't have a top locker at work and I nearly cried - !!!!!!, it is just a locker!!

sallyx

hugs tenmah

bookseller1980

I'm listening to Jeremy Vine - he's just got a mother talking to her son in the forces in Afghanistan and I've got tears running down my cheeks.

Buffythedebtslayer

sallyx wrote: »

trouble is if I rest my mind whurs and its exhausting. I never realised how exhausting it is I just want to be back to the old me...how can I possibly change overnight into this wreck

Sal, you have had a very hard time and you have carried everything yourself. I think as it comes to the end of the year some part of you is going ok STOP NOW and let go. Some where I think cos you know OH is going to be at home you want to have some one else to take over (I know he is there all the time, but now you have time off together you are both there iyswim)

I seriously think you should write down all the things you are worried about and work out solutions how ever painful to each one, so as your mind whurs again you can say ok I have a solution to that. I may not like it (the solutions) but they are there.

Honestly love stop having a go at yourself please, worrying about money is frightening and your OH doesn't seem to be getting himself up in the air about getting job and all kinds of other family stuff. What you are feeling is understandable.

Love Buffy xx

Buffythedebtslayer

tenmah wrote: »

Hugs to you Sally. It is a horrible feeling isn't it?

I have just been told I can't have a top locker at work and I nearly cried - !!!!!!, it is just a locker!!

Don't worry Tenmah, I just screamed at a rug for not moving and When I say screamed I mean proper full on burst in to tears screamed.

oh dear.

LouiseJ

Buffythedebtslayer wrote: »

Don't worry Tenmah, I just screamed at a rug for not moving and When I say screamed I mean proper full on burst in to tears screamed.

oh dear.

I burst into tears because I couldnt get the end of a candle out of a votive holder:o