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Help needed re so-called friend

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  • mum2one wrote: »
    he's lost a very good friend, and next time stick to my judgment.

    Thank you again xx

    You sound lovely - a VERY good friend - hope you have lots of friends that are good to you too. And DONT underestimate your judgment!
  • mum2one wrote: »
    I have now found out how to block the number on my phone, so he can't text or phone.

    I had a phone that could do this but it didnt block texts just the calls! maybe block someone else and ask them to text you just to see?
    Also mine would show up as 1 blocked call if a blocked number tried
  • mum2one
    mum2one Posts: 16,279 Forumite
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    Touch wood no contact, so maybe he's had his hissy fit and start on someone else, so stupid as its what u expect off school children not a bloke of 55.
    xx rip dad... we had our ups and downs but we’re always be family xx
  • lolababy
    lolababy Posts: 723 Forumite
    Hi reminds me of a gay friend of my brothers who drank and became a different person . He even phoned me and was really abusive despite having met me once.
    My advice would be to cut all ties before he brings you down with him.
  • mum2one
    mum2one Posts: 16,279 Forumite
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    lolababy wrote: »
    Hi reminds me of a gay friend of my brothers who drank and became a different person . He even phoned me and was really abusive despite having met me once.
    My advice would be to cut all ties before he brings you down with him.
    U've hit it on the nail. Guess there always be people who drink doesn't agree with......

    Me after a few brandies, I cry!!
    xx rip dad... we had our ups and downs but we’re always be family xx
  • Pete*G_4
    Pete*G_4 Posts: 552 Forumite
    i think you've done the right thing, but if I'm being perfectly honest I have no idea what he was trying to say in the nasty text - it's all gibeberish to me :o
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  • mum2one
    mum2one Posts: 16,279 Forumite
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    Pete*G wrote: »
    i think you've done the right thing, but if I'm being perfectly honest I have no idea what he was trying to say in the nasty text - it's all gibeberish to me :o

    Thank you, the just of it was aimed at causing trouble, as my daughters dad is barred from seeing her, he's never seen her, my daughter calls my dad, dad not grandad, can get confusing.... when she learnt to say grandad, she asked dad if she now wanted to be called grandad, or could she call him dad, he was plzed as punch to be called dad.

    Just a very sad person, trying to cause trouble, and he nearly did it.
    xx rip dad... we had our ups and downs but we’re always be family xx
  • mum2one wrote: »
    I may be overreacting, but just wanted some thoughts,

    Definate over reation
    It's taken me years of experience to get this cynical
  • mum2one
    mum2one Posts: 16,279 Forumite
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    Definate over reation

    Considering I deleted the rest of the post, then in all fairness, please don't judge, as the circumstances and text is no longer displayed. x
    xx rip dad... we had our ups and downs but we’re always be family xx
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