CSA & Self employed

speedster

pd001 wrote: »

I gather that you probably don't get on with her then?
:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

nah. i don't like greedy contact blockers who use their children as weapons and try to drive dad away so that new fella can play at being daddy.

above all, i have my daughters respect, her mother has none. and the fact that as soon as she is old enough to be heard, she'll be living with us. which means more than i can say.

therefore i don't give a hoot what the self righteous loons on here think of me. :rolleyes::D:rotfl:

pd001

Loopy_Girl wrote: »

Jeez and they accuse the PWC of being bitter and twisted.....here's hoping that the child they created doesn't ever get to read what darling Daddy refers to her Mother as:rolleyes:

LOL...Dont forget there are two sides to every single story on these forums. As much as I despise my ex I try not to show it in my postings. I also try my best not to show bias, although I can understand why some people do vent their frustrations on here.

Hi Loopy, how are you doing?
I never got chance to reply to that very same question that you asked me about 10 days ago on another thread..that ended up locked.
Anyway...i m fine..how are you? (for the second time)

speedster

pd001 wrote: »

LOL...Dont forget there are two sides to every single story on these forums. As much as I despise my ex I try not to show it in my postings. I also try my best not to show bias, although I can understand why some people do vent their frustrations on here.


Hi Loopy, how are you doing?
I never got chance to reply to that very same question that you asked me about 10 days ago on another thread..that ended up locked.
Anyway...i m fine..how are you? (for the second time)

why does their drivel show up when someone quotes them?

is there a way of getting quotes on ignore too??

Loopy_Girl

You are right...there are always 2 sides to every story and it always amuses me that there are people out there who are quite happy to let their children stay with these PWC that can only be described as akin to the Childcatcher (in their words)....it's amusing and also a little scary...but hey, maybe that's just me - always thinking of children's best interests

I know...the threads we were exchanging pleasantries both got locked...seems to be an influx of AE's and trolls which is a shame.

I'm just fine, thank you for asking. Had a few health problems which I shant bore you with but life goes on eh?! No point bloody moaning nayway since no one listens!!!!!:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Hope all well with you

speedster

"let" their children stay with them???

you really are clueless about family law matters aren't you?

dipsy

Kimitatsu wrote: »

I would check the calculator because on those figures I made it a flat rate of £5 a week because his income is less then £100 a week, the first £100 is not accounted for. That is if they accept projected incoem figures as Speedster has suggested

See here:

https://secureonline.dwp.gov.uk/csa/v2/en/calculate-complete.asp

so basically £100 a week would make it £5 a week payment

would this then be divided between the two sets of PWC if they both applied to the CSA?

so basically my next question is, as they have done an assesment based on him not being able to show how much he earns- as no accounts as yet, what is the best way forward?

How does he prove that he is taking less than £50 a week?

we need to try and get this sorted ASAP as until the CSA payment is in place she won't allow access, been 6 weeks now and is very upsetting for him and the children, not to mention their extended family, aunts/uncles/cousins 1/2 brother, sister and granpa who cannot see them.

thanks in advance.

speedster

projected figures.

and if she keeps blocking contact, file a c100 and drag her contact blocking arsse to court. :mad:

dipsy

Hi Speedster

How easy is it to go to court representing yourself?

Will she need to attend court and if so will the court need to be where she lives or where he lives? (she lives 500 miles away with the children)

and do you know costs involved for filing your own paperwork?

cheers

plok

Dipsy, it is a fairly straightforward matter to take the person withholding contact to court. Visit your local court and get the forms from the clerks office. I think the filing fee is £120.

Have the papers served properly and you should be in Court within 6 weeks. Being an LIP (doing it yourself without using solicitors) is the way to go. You know the detail and as a Brucie bonus the Court gives you a certain amount of leeway because you are representing yourself.

Never mix the issues of CSA and contact - the Court's are not there to deal with money issues. There is a wealth of information out there for LIP's. If you PM me I can send you some stuff that will get you going.

Finally, solicitor or doing it yourself, going the Court route will antagonise the other party and they will use every delaying tactic available. Be warned!

dipsy

Hi Plok

thanks for that will PM you for the info, really appreciate it.

I recognise that CSA and contact is a different issue, pity the "lady" in question seems to think they go hand in hand.. :-(

What will happen if it goes to the court will it be at a court where it is filed, i.e. local to my partner if he files?

and will she be required to attend or can a decision be made in her absence?

many thanks again