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Good vibes for luck please **didn't get it***

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  • Toto
    Toto Posts: 6,680 Forumite
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    Aww I'm sorry, I had all my fingers crossed for you.

    Overqualified! Idiots... what would they rather, someone they have to nurture and train... who then leaves and takes all that investment elsewhere?

    I employ people and I look at it this way, I would rather have the most qualified and skilled person, I will let them be the judge of what they are overqualified for, not my place to say. If they leave in 6 months, fine, I have had the benefit of their skills for that time and I didn't need to expend a load of energy training them.

    So, obviously that company is stupid and shortsighted and you are far too good for them.
    :A
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    "Everyone is a genius. But if you judge a fish on its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid" - Albert Einstein
  • CosmoCat
    CosmoCat Posts: 681 Forumite
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    aw babe

    i'm so sorry to hear. but i'm sure there's something even better around the corner for you. i can feel it.

    chin up, it always gets better.
    MFW Newbie - #17. (#116 in 2019)
    New Mortgage at Nov 19 - £273 499
    Current Balance - £268 225
    Want to cut down 26 year mortgage by 9 years!
    New MF date 2036 :dance:
  • In_Search_Of_Me
    In_Search_Of_Me Posts: 10,634 Forumite
    Really sorry tohear that & totally understandable that you're gutted having gone through so much, no wonder you're gutted. Huge hugs! Anything else on the horizon?
    Nerd no 109 Long haulers supporters DFW #1! Even in the darkest moments, love and hope are always possible.

  • kathfisch
    kathfisch Posts: 3,042 Forumite
    Awww, so sorry to hear that!

    I really hope something even better comes your way soon, (((hugs))) :)
    Don't stress, relax, let life roll off your backs. Except for death and paying taxes, everything in life is only for now... Avenue Q
    Official DFW Nerd Club - Member no. 003 :DProud to have become debt free... and striving to keep it that way
  • gallygirl
    gallygirl Posts: 17,240 Forumite
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    If you didn't get it then it wasn't meant to be. Their loss, not yours. Something better will turn up - combination of a job you want AND a good salary!!!

    Big hug to you. At least you don't look like this - :rudolf: think have caught SS's man flu!
    A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort
    :) Mortgage Balance = £0 :)
    "Do what others won't early in life so you can do what others can't later in life"
  • ozzyfan_2
    ozzyfan_2 Posts: 599 Forumite
    So sorry to hear that Emmzi :(

    Don't be too sad though, I'm sure there is a fantastic job out there with your name on it & will keep my fingers crossed for you that you find it soon :)

    Big hugs to you.
  • LookingAhead
    LookingAhead Posts: 4,633 Forumite
    Sorry to read your news Emmzi....how frustrating for you.

    Good luck for the future...try and look at this one as interview experience for the big one that will come your way soon.

    Keep on keeping on hon...
    Bank Balance: In the black for the moment.
    Sainsburys Loan: Cleared July 2010
    Credit cards: AMEX Airmiles Card: direct debit set to clear balance monthly
  • Emmzi
    Emmzi Posts: 8,658 Forumite
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    Well, it's morning.

    On the plus side, b/f was really fab. I was 'normal' at work all day and got to his place and had a good cry, and he'd even been out to buy cake. What a sweetie.

    Currently I have a second interview in the next couple of weeks, which is a year's contract; and a slim chance of extension with current employment. (They have appointed a new director in my line of work, who will need 3 to 4 weeks to work out his plan and what staff he needs)

    I am going to buff up cv for obscenely well paid jobs and mail all the agencies on Sunday. But tonight is girl's night out!!

    I figure my 3 bits of bad luck are..

    - pc exploded
    - stepped on favourite sunglasses and broke them
    - didn't get job.

    That must be it, surely!!

    so ...
    - found new sunglasses in garage v cheap
    - bargain new pc arrives saturday, sure it will be fab
    - and surely a new job is heading my way soon!!!

    I still have almost 2 months to go at this company, so 2 more fat paychecks. as I haven't paid off second loan, I can survive for 8 to 10 months on savings.. *surely* something will come up by then!!!

    Thank you all for your support. It really does mean a lot to me. Sometimes you just can't have enough friends on board.
    Debt free 4th April 2007.
    New house. Bigger mortgage. MFWB after I have my buffer cash in place.
  • lynzpower
    lynzpower Posts: 25,311 Forumite
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    And another thing on the plus side, is that you have a huge amount of living costs stashed away if the worst happens.

    Im sure you are the only person on this board who has that amount stashed away, and lets face it 8 months of being out of work for someone with your skills is VERY unlikely to happen.

    Have a lovely :beer: tonight and keep looking for the silver linings, there are plenty around you :D
    :beer: Well aint funny how its the little things in life that mean the most? Not where you live, the car you drive or the price tag on your clothes.
    Theres no dollar sign on piece of mind
    This Ive come to know...
    So if you agree have a drink with me, raise your glasses for a toast :beer:
  • Toto
    Toto Posts: 6,680 Forumite
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    Yes well done on the savings. My savings wouldn't get us through breakfast on day 1 so huge pat on the back to you.

    Something great is around the corner; things in life always seem to happen for a reason. Good luck with the second interview.
    :A
    :A
    "Everyone is a genius. But if you judge a fish on its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid" - Albert Einstein
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