Id love some help, im close to breaking point.

SouthCoast

endoftheroad wrote: »

Does anyone know if there is anyway I can check if anything is in my name without alerting Mum. I can't do BR until I know. Surely I would have tax forms, statements if there were, I just don't know?

Can you ask the person who dealt with your late fathers estate?

Alternatively if probate was granted you should be able to obtain a copy.

endoftheroad

Thanks South Coast.

Not really, he died in 2000 and the solicitor is a close friend of Mums.

I just cant get this out of my head, I don't know why its there, its never been intimated to me that there is anything in my name, I just feel so sick with worry.

Thanks for the advice

endoftheroad

I think I need to go see my Doctor, I can't carry on like this

confused76

make an appointment next week hun...it's a very stressful time, and on top there's your bipolar...just make sure you are looking after yourself - eating sleeping etc very basic but crucial...
i don't think you need to explore the 'what ifs' of your mothers finances, unless she has specifically said in the past she is thinking about doing it..what has given you this impression?x

endoftheroad

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh! :rolleyes:

Nothing is in my name :rotfl:

Rang mum up and asked, didn't mention bankruptcy, told her I had a benefit review form come this morning asking if I had any assets, savings. Nothing in my name.

The relief is huge, I didn't like to lie, but I felt I had no other choice.

One step closer, one step closer

Thankyou dears X

confused76

excellent! i'm glad you can stop worrying about that...:j

endoftheroad

Confused76, bless you X Sending you a virtual coffee and pecan danish

confused76

ooh good i'm starving lol :Dx