Trying For a Baby part 4

QQuaver

Red_Rose wrote: »

Just got really bad stomach cramp (like period pain) and weakness on CD 16 (I OV'd CD 12) for a few minutes.

I need to stop SSing!

:D:D

moneysaver12 wrote: »

Thankyou rach, mine is http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2a4afe

I assume you think you ov'd on 14th, but your temp didn't go up afterwards.
If it was my chart, I'd say I haven't ov'd yet.
How long is your cycle? Mine can be as long as 37 days, so I could easily ov on CD23;)

gratefulforhelp wrote: »

Thanks, guys. Rather....indelicate question.

No no:) We'd all like to know:D
We dtd every 2 - 3 days (as least) around ov.

stef240377

This might sound wrong or come out wrong so bare with me - as i have read these threads for a while now is it safe for me to assume the vast majority that are ttc only up the bd action around OV and that the rest of the month is a slump in comparison?

As a rule since hubby and i have been together (3yrs now) we have always bd at least 2-3 times a week, obviously a helluva lot more when we first got together but the 2/3 times is our 'pattern' so to speak. It only feels like a chore when it gets around ov and my head seems stuck in a god ere we go every other night mentality and it seems around ov the spontanaity goes out the windows yet when those few measley days pass it is back to a get your kitt off frame of mind. Is this just me? Obviously its a bit harder for Twinklie not seeing her OH as much as she would like.

phunkles

just oh balls

notttmyusualname

Erm i dont see OH very often and havent really a clue when I ov and first month of non preventative proceedures but i think coz we dont see each other very often we sometimes make up for the lack of seeing each other and dtd quite a lot??
ill take my !!! back to the TMIcorner

QQuaver

kamperkat wrote: »

Stef - no-one could tell me either after my mc - I know it's so very difficult but be patient she WILL turn up and then you'll know that you are back on track. :grouphug:
kkxx

My AF came 2 weeks after erpc (D&C) op, then went back to normal.
First AF very light, second one massive.

stef240377 wrote: »

This might sound wrong or come out wrong so bare with me - as i have read these threads for a while now is it safe for me to assume the vast majority that are ttc only up the bd action around OV and that the rest of the month is a slump in comparison?

Yes for me, slump as in every weekend:o

Penny35_2

We bd quite a bit, always the same all month.. No slump time for us

gratefulforhelp_2

Bd every other day for ttc was what I was thinking...

moneysaver12

QQuaver wrote: »

:D:D


I assume you think you ov'd on 14th, but your temp didn't go up afterwards.
If it was my chart, I'd say I haven't ov'd yet.
How long is your cycle? Mine can be as long as 37 days, so I could easily ov on CD23;)

No no:) We'd all like to know:D
We dtd every 2 - 3 days (as least) around ov.

Thankyou for your help. My cycle can be up to 32 days long. Shortest has been 28 days and longest 32 days. My temp has gone back up today, above what it normally is. Also my nipples feel tender.

*BigBird*

Wow, you lot were chatty yesterday!

I ended up getting dragged along to the footie match with DH and his mates as someone couldn't make it and it was a shame to waste the ticket I think I did OK, managed to cheer in the right places and "ooooo" at appropriate times

Then back to DH's friend's place for lots of fun playing with his 3 little girls OH was asking his mate and wifey lots of questions about raising children, how their reward charts work... (bless him!) Haven't told them we are TTC yet though.

No SSing here as I have no symptoms of anything whatsoever! Boobs are bigger than usual, but this is most likely due to the stone I put on over Christmas

As for BDing, due to me having a lower sex drive than DH and me being more of a morning person as opposed to him being a bit of a night owl, it had become a bit infrequent of late. However our effort to get in a fair bit of BDing around ov time seems to have kick started things, so hopefull we can keep it going

bitzer_maloney

Hi all, I'm back from my hols sadly with AF in tow and a lot of IBS. Joy of joys. Holiday was not quite how I expected, but it was a good learning experience and it was very pretty up there. Have absolutely no chance of catching up with the thread and my washing, so aside from the bfps I saw -congrats ladies!!:j and ((hugs)) to those in need, I have no idea what's going on!

Love and babydust xx