Trying For a Baby part 4

moneysaver12

rach wrote: »

moneysaver happy to look at your chart if you want to post the link...mine is http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2b89c5

Thankyou rach, mine is http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2a4afe

gratefulforhelp_2

Um...is there a recommended frequency for BDing?

twinklie

gratefulforhelp wrote: »

Um...is there a recommended frequency for BDing?

In my case...whenever it's on offer!!! Or we'd never dtd!!! Weekends are the highlight of my week. In general I think the advice is 2-3 days to keep the swimmers fresh. BUT, I'm a firm believer of when you want to. I couldn't stick to specific times. I can't do it on demand unfortunately.....DH could and would GLADLY! :rotfl:

stef240377

God if i could now it would be every ten mins, cant wait to get back into action. Am sat taking mood out on a box of Thorntons chocs at min to take mind of matters. Hubby has sorted out all the paper work for keeping and shredding, only have two items left to go for freecycle, kids are staying in their rooms out the way for once without being told......must be up to no good lol.

Am seriously considering !!!!!!ing off to Asda for a while but cant be bothered to get car out the garage or have kids begging to be in tow.

twinklie

Awww Stef, whats wrong hon? Did I miss something?

gratefulforhelp_2

Thanks, guys. Rather....indelicate question.

stef240377

No you not missed anything Twinklie - im just frustrated at not being able to dtd. Still spotting up to this morning however just was the first time i have been the loo and the paper when i wiped was clear hopefully that will be the end of it now.

Going to poas tomorrow morning to see if levels have dropped and try and work out when i should ov etc.

Tried to ask dr when i should expect af and all i got back was anytime in teh next 4 to 6 weeks.. But is that from the first day i bled or the first day i lost clots? so much confussion and i dont seem to be able to get answers from google either.

Facebook doing my head in as its the same day in day out, sick of ready daft staus's too. Gorden Bennet i sound a miserable get tonight lol

twinklie

I'm miserable as well so you're not alone. Ha ha.

stef240377

We will have to set up our own miserable corner then lol

kamperkat

Stef, Twinkle - I think we're gonna have to get a bigger corner, AF just turned up...i even did a poas just in case it was implantation bleeding (wishful thinking) so now OH has gone to the shop to get us a bottle of vino calapso...
We now have to have some serious conversations (probably after the first glass) as to whether we are going to put TTC on hold until after we get married as I don't want to be pregnant and organising our wedding, or indeed be pregnant in front of the vicar:eek:.
We haven't set a date yet but we had spoken about this september and now with the arrival of dear old Flo I think she might have made the decision for us.....soo Boo Hiss Aunt Flo, but yay Wedding Bells!
Argghhh!!!! My head is all over the place - I am so sad but i think it's probably for the best but :mad:...
Stef - no-one could tell me either after my mc - I know it's so very difficult but be patient she WILL turn up and then you'll know that you are back on track. :grouphug:
kkxx