Trying For a Baby part 4

gettingthereslowly

Penny HUGE hugs to you xxx

CD 13 for me. Lots of bding recently and hopefully still to come :D:rotfl:

Really hoping that this is the month for me (please!!!)

In work at the mo and then home to a relaxing new yr with hubby (first one married :beer:).

Hope everyone has had a fab xmas and heres to a BFP filled 2010 :beer::j:j

Sticky baby dust to all xxxxxxxxxx

Lauralou

Just keep going qquaver.

Oh my! I couldnt get served alcohol in tesco because i didnt have any ID on me(dont worry the alcohol was for OH!) so got home was having a panic attack because i could find me ID then started worrying that i would have to pay lots off money for a new one. So OH said maybe i lost it when i went out a couple off weeks ago, so looked everywhere that i wore/used that night, still couldnt fine it but then i remembered i toke my other purse out and it was in there!!phew panic over!

I suppose i should be happy that im always ask for ID!!

So what is everyones plan for tonight? We are just getting a takeaway, having a cosy night in(OH on the xbox most prob!) Its too expensive to go out where i live and plus OH isnt good when its really busy in places.

mariagti

Its been 25 days since my ERPC after my missed miscarriage so lets say im on CD25 and i think i might soon actually be getting my 1st AF since as starting to get slight cramps and awful skin like i normally get around that time so here's hoping. I know it can take upto 6 weeks. As soon as she's here TTC can being if thats what we're both ready again

Happy New Year to everyone! I hope we see tones of BFP's in 2010 and healthy, happy pregnancies!

Have a great evening whatever your doing! Esp if your BD'ing! haha

sir_monster

((((hugs))))) to everyone who has needed them in 2009!! Along with a few of you here have been through the highs of getting a BFP then a m/c so will be looking forward to 2010 with both a BFP but hoping it is sticky!! I hope those that have recently got a BFP end up with their bubs in 2010 and so do the rest of you fab ladies, you all deserve it.

Hope you all have a good night either drinking or not, I intend to try to take it easy as going down to my SIL at the seaside and have a nice takeaway accompanied with some bucks fizz or peach bellini which is only 4% but may have a glass of cava at midnight. See you in 2010!

freebiequennie

penny sorry to hear your news thinking of you.

still no AF here so hoping but not going to test til day 40 as my cycle can be 35-40days and today is day 35.

Have been having lots of stomach cramps over last 4 days and feeling sick last thing in eve when going to bed and had excessive wind - which isnt normal. Had sore breasts but this is normal for me 1-2wks before AF.

Since mon 23rd dec had a left sided stabbing pain in stomach well it happened on 23rd (only remember as in asda doing food shop and thought was going to chuck up - would have got us through till quicker!!) and has happened twice since.

I am so hoping but know its likely I am reading too much into any symptons.

good luck to all and Happy New year I am babysitting a very cute 10mth old tonight (bit extra money all needed at the moment) only till 11pm so home with hubby to see in new year.

Metranil_Vavin

We're staying in tonight too...first time for years and years!

OH is going to cook a yummy curry and I'll be having a cheeky glass of cava to see in the New Year (if I dont fall asleep before midnight that is!)

We'd decided we couldn't be bothered to do anything sometime ago, but with things the way they are, I dont think I'd enjoy watching my friends all getting merry whilst I'm on the schloer!!

Hope you all have a great night whatever you are doing.

LilDevil

Penny35 wrote: »

Thanks everyone I really appreciate all of your messages.

I am feeling very numb and still feel in limbo, think maybe I need to face up to the reality but I am not sure I will till the scan next week...

Hubby is going out to get me that crochet mag that is being advertised on tv at moment never crochet before but it comes with a DVD wool and needle, like doing crafty type things so think it will keep my mind occupied.

I thought about the crochet mag too, but I already get the knitting one, and still haven't managed to finish the throw yet (started knitting again 3 years ago :eek: ), so probably not a good idea to get another one - I'm running out of space for the wool that I have so have no idea where I'd put the stuff that comes with the mag

My advice regarding the mc applies to your DH too - most people tend to forget about the fellas as it's the woman that goes through the physical side of it, but it really does affect them too (my poor DH was off work for a month with depression, he's still feeling low, but being at home was 'doing his head in' even more :rolleyes:).

We're going round to a friends this evening, so don't really know what will be happening - I dread to think actually - when that lot (posties!) get together, they revert to (very early) childhood.

Lauralou

lil devil i see you have started knitting again. Is there any good book to buy thats really easy to understand and follow about how to learn to knit. I want to start learning how to knit:D!


I just want to thank everyone you have all helped me soooo much this year, and i really dont know what i would off done without all your help.:Dyou are all so wonderful amazing strong women
THANK YOU.

Hope everyone has a good night

Penny35_2

LilDevil wrote: »

I thought about the crochet mag too, but I already get the knitting one, and still haven't managed to finish the throw yet (started knitting again 3 years ago :eek: ), so probably not a good idea to get another one - I'm running out of space for the wool that I have so have no idea where I'd put the stuff that comes with the mag

My advice regarding the mc applies to your DH too - most people tend to forget about the fellas as it's the woman that goes through the physical side of it, but it really does affect them too (my poor DH was off work for a month with depression, he's still feeling low, but being at home was 'doing his head in' even more :rolleyes:).

We're going round to a friends this evening, so don't really know what will be happening - I dread to think actually - when that lot (posties!) get together, they revert to (very early) childhood.

My husband has been brilliant. I know I am very very lucky with him he is the most thoughtful caring person. He is being strong for me, but we are lucky we talk very easily to each other and we are able to talk about how he feels as well as how I feel.

He rang EPU for me before and spoke to the consulantat I have been seeing and I am going in in the morning so they can tell me if I had had a MC or not but I think we both know the answer I just need someone to tell me They said I could go tonight but I cant face it.

As for the crochet mag poor hubby went to 4 !! large newsagents and none of them had it so have just subscribed on-line to it.

Hope you all have the BFPs you want very early in 2010. I am sure we have lost our little one and if we have we will be very actively trying to get our BFP.

Thanks ladies without wanting to sound too gushy you cant know what your words of support have meant to me.

xx

SkintGypsy

Just popping in to wish you all the Biggest Fattest Positives in the New Year. You are all kind and generous souls, and your posts have provided some much needed comfort and support to a lot of us lukers. You deserve to have your hearts desires, and I truly hope you get them.

Gypsy xx