MSE Parents Club Part 8

searching_me

am why you angry at yourself its not your fault you never asked for it ... ((bighugs)) on everything and you got my number if you wanna chat x

astonsmummy

searching_me wrote: »

am why you angry at yourself its not your fault you never asked for it ... ((bighugs)) on everything and you got my number if you wanna chat x

No but I should of sorted this out a long time ago

searching_me

astonsmummy wrote: »

No but I should of sorted this out a long time ago

theres nothing wrong with having hope .. you had hope and so it never turned out right your only human your handling and dealing with it so dont be so hard on yourself .. think of the kids they'll get you through it x

redmel1621

Wow elle sounds fantastic...and I agree with you on the celery, yuk...but hopefully there is sooo much else in it you won't notice it!!

Hi am - I think maybe they are right! and it is for the best hon...what would happen if you stay where you are, he will only come round and either try to worm his way back in and the whole cycle starts again or else he will cause trouble...I really think you owe it to the kids to get them away from there and somewhere that you can be safe and happy with them...start your own own life just with them:) Wishing you all the best xxx

tiamai_d

AM, it's not your fault hun, you don't deserve this. Take the new start and be brave. (((huge hugs)))

I'm off out for some RL socialising, be good!

searching_me

have fun tia x

BrunoM

redmel1621 wrote: »

Hi Bruno - not seen you about much lately...how is Elijah now?

Thanks Mel - well was up with him from 2 til 5 last night, bar 15 mins in the middle when we tried BF, he just was miserable and each time he reached out to be put back into his bed he would start wailing again within half a minute

So was completely shattered at work today, almost called in sick but was a bad day to do that, had 7.5 hours of back to back calls or meetings and would've been a nightmare to reschedule!

Meanwhile he seems muuuuch improved, no fever since this morning, and this evening he is full of beans and ate a proper supper! So all's well that ends well I guess!

AM, it must be horribly stressful but it sounds like it may end up being a good thing not a bad one? Fingers crossed for you.

BrunoM

Much amusement here tonight as we have bought Elijah a little wooden clockface with hands and so on as a toy, and he has learned his new word "clock", only he can't say the L we are such children!

redmel1621

Oh Bruno, I often find that happens a hellish night and then a miraculous recovery the next day! You need to make sure you get an early night tonight then, it's only monday too!!!! lol at the 'clock' word

The rain is lashing down here...Baby in bed, gonna get the other two into PJ's now and then not really sure what to do the them...I might send them to sleep in our bed because I want to spend the evening in their room filling in holes in the walls, so it will be dry to paper tomorrow...also need to attanch some sections of skirting, but that will have to wait till tomortow now. Kai in nursery tomorrow so should get plenty done. It is when trying to get jobs like this done that I htink it might be a good idea to keep him booked in a day a week, as we have no family that are able/willing to help out so it is awkward getting stuff done!

Oh yeah talking of family. I saw my younger sister last thursday, just by chance, and asked how she was and what plans she has for christmas....well apparantly her and her fiance, my mum and her boyfriend, my younger brother and older brother are all going to my mums house where she and mum are cooking christmas dinner!!! No-one has even mentioned it to me, I only found out because I bumped into her and happened to ask, and it has all been arranged for ages!!! Her and mum always get into a little clique and arrange all sorts, they never bother to invite me,or even let me know what they are up to....I wonder whether they will even bother to visit me on xmas day then!!! I hate christmas and families...always seems bother

searching_me

thats not right mel why would they do that?? mind you its that very reason i dont bother with anyone on xmas just philip and the kids .. not forgetting sweep x