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Weekly Flylady Thread 19th October 2009

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  • soappie
    soappie Posts: 6,786 Forumite
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    Morning all

    Piggers - re the appointment. I think it's really important that you attend it. Can't the older children help out with the younger ones? What about OH, Exh - or even your mother just for this one morning? Failing that, just take them with you.....
    I am the leading lady in the movie of my life
  • woohoo1.gifPenPen's 9 Day weekend List; Tuesday to Wednesday woohoo1.gif


    Today
    • change lightbulbs
    • update MSE sig
    • buy Rossini CD
    • clean up foraged walnuts
    • pay in football money
    • light wash
    • write 2 birthday cards
    • wrap birthday gift
    • Check football accounts; can we afford to buy more balls?
    • Update LoveFilm list
    • Make granola
    • print DS's timetable
    • order concert tickets
    • fill cotton wool tin
    • download music to MP3
    • book haircut for DH
    • pay for Scout neckers
    • make bread
    • make yoghurt
    • make flapjack
    • empty and wax fruit bowl
    Tomorrow and beyond

      [*]pay cheque for DS’s school ski trip
      [*]label jams

      [*]Book doctor check-up for me (between 5 and 19 Nov)

      [*]put bank statements onto stick to print ~ 1 lot done; 1 more to do
      [*]Charity Commission return for Scouts
      [*]sort some credit card slips/statements
      [*]book hall for Scout meeting
      [*]join union
      [*]check DD's DofE progress
      [*]topdress chilli plants
      [*]collect library books
      [*]mend DS's school trousers
      [*]mend PJ top
      [*]organise football newspaper clippings
      [*]ring JW
      [*]empty my briefcase
      [*]crack big bag of nuts
      :rudolf: Sheep, pigs, hens and bees on our Teesdale smallholding :rudolf:
    • juliejim
      juliejim Posts: 7,943 Forumite
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      I've just done an hour's ironing and put the WM on - haven't had my shower yet though. Going to have a look at this week's list to see what I have actually done on it!

      Monday ~ Master Bedroom
      Level One
      Declutter the floors
      [STRIKE]Strip the bedding get it washed dried and the bed remade![/STRIKE]
      Level Two
      vacuum the floors
      [STRIKE]Straighten a cupboard of clothing[/STRIKE]
      [STRIKE]Empty all the bins upstairs[/STRIKE]
      Level Three
      Tidy a box of 'stuff'
      [STRIKE]Tidy up the floordrobe, inc. shoes bags and toiletries.[/STRIKE]
      dust and deweb

      Extras
      1. [STRIKE]HHI[/STRIKE]
      2. Wash windows
      3. Binbag dance
      4. Check doors and windows for draughts and make a plan of action for dealing with them
      Tuesday ~ Living room, Hall and Stairs
      Level One
      Declutter the floors
      Vacuum said decluttered floors!
      Level Two
      declutter and dust the mantle putting back only what should be there
      Wipe the sofas if needed
      Wipe and water plants, dust and deweb
      Level Three
      Wash any soft furnishings that are in need
      Clear and wipe window sills, and any electricals and picture frames etc
      Empty and clear out a cupboard..
      Extras
      1. [STRIKE]HHI[/STRIKE]
      2. binbag dance
      3. Wipe the paintwork and bannisters
      4. Wash any windows that have been neglected
      Wednesday ~ Kitchen of Grot and Diming Room of Gloom
      Level One
      Declutter and mop/vacuum the floors
      Find and wipe the worksurfaces - found 1 and the top of the freezer!
      Level Two
      Wipe the big appliances and units.. don't forget kickboards!
      Wipe small appliances and replace.. do one thoroughly.. descale or decrumb or degunge!
      Clear and wipe a shelf or window sill
      Level Three
      Wipe the table and replace the cloth if necessary.
      Sort through and clean out one cupboard
      Clean the oven and hob.. :D
      Extras
      1. Clean out the fridge.. make use of anything almost past its best
      2. Wash the windows
      3. Drag out a large appliance or 2 and clean behind and under it
      4. Dust and Deweb
      [/QUOTE]

      Doesn't look like much does it!:rolleyes:

      Never mind - better go and get a shower before I leave the house in 45 mins!
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    • lala1974
      lala1974 Posts: 424 Forumite
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      Wednesday ~ Kitchen of Grot and Diming Room of Gloom
      Level One
      Declutter and mop/vacuum the floors
      Find and wipe the worksurfaces
      Level Two
      Wipe the big appliances and units.. don't forget kickboards!
      Wipe small appliances and replace.. do one thoroughly.. descale or decrumb or degunge!
      Level Three
      Wipe the table and replace the cloth if necessary.
      Sort through and clean out one cupboard

      Clean the oven and hob..
      Extras

      Clean out the fridge.. make use of anything almost past its best
      Wash the windows
      Drag out a large appliance or 2 and clean behind and under it
      Dust and Deweb
       
      Also:
      Walk lazy lab
      Prepare tea, clear dishes, S&S kitchen
      S&S bathroom
      Empty schoolbags and sort contents
      Layout clothes for the morning
       
      Another day’s work ahead. I wonder what can be added today to “childish, game playing, unprofessional” individuals who can‘t be trusted as far as we can be thrown? I wonder if she has some communication problems and what she’s actually trying to say is that I’m a “young at heart, fun loving, private individual” who likes her food! :rotfl:
       
       
      Carlsberg gal - mega vibes!

      Pen Pen - hope you had a great day

      Mumto5 - sending “virtual” help and calming vibes!

      Jinky - its very easy to isolate ourselves when we’re feeling down and we all manage things differently - if having time out is right for you then use it. Your boss does sound nice, don’t be afraid to ask for support ((hugs))

      Pigpen - sorry that yesterday was so horrible, what an incompetent hospital, will you make a complaint? Its shocking!:eek:

      Greenbee - I’ve been looking for a smiley that represents “running around in circles”, which would seem to fit your problems with GP/Occ Health/Work!!! ;)

      JillD - I’ve replied to your PM - again, I’ve rambled enough to cover 3 pages of the thread otherwise!

      Froddington - Look after yourself, you come first!

      Hi LL, Toots, Mudbath and all I missed!

      Big, but gentle hugs to all of those in need :A

      Happy flying all,
      Lala x
       
      :);) AF since 10.04.11 :):D
      "Feel the fear and do it anyway" - Susan Jeffers
    • jackywhizz
      jackywhizz Posts: 726 Forumite
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      edited 21 October 2009 at 11:08AM
      Morning all.
      Penpen - love that coat & such a cute scarf.
      Tuesday ~ Living room, Hall and Stairs All Done - star please:D




      Extras
      1. Wipe the paintwork and bannisters
      2. Wash any windows that have been neglected
      :confused:

      Wednesday ~ Kitchen of Grot and Diming Room of Gloom
      Level One
      Declutter and mop/vacuum the floors
      Find and wipe the worksurfaces
      Level Two
      Wipe the big appliances and units.. don't forget kickboards!
      Wipe small appliances and replace.. do one thoroughly.. descale or decrumb or degunge!
      [STRIKE]Clear and wipe a shelf or window sill[/STRIKE]
      Level Three
      [STRIKE]
      Wipe the table and replace the cloth if necessary.
      Sort through and clean out one cupboard
      [/STRIKE]
      Clean the oven and hob.. :D




      Extras
      1. Clean out the fridge.. make use of anything almost past its best
      2. Wash the windows
      3. Drag out a large appliance or 2 and clean behind and under it
      4. [STRIKE]Dust and Deweb[/STRIKE]
      1. Collect my new glasses
      2. Car wash
      3. tidy away tomato plants
      4. Eyebrow app
      5. nectar card
      6. wheels
      7. frame new photo
      8. toothbrushing
      9. gas fire service
      10. front door
      11. blockbusters
      12. new toothbrush head
      13. make lemon cream
      14. make crispie cakes
      15. Shoelaces
      16. Food shop
      17. DS2 leave of absence request(new head new system
      18. Book service for dh;s car
      19. Ckean the unloved pot& brass lamps
    • jinky67
      jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
      DS came back for a brief visit from Germany (2 days and drove there and back), confirmed that his company is going to Afghan, just not who yet, so MEGA VIBES that it isn't him - though he wants to go the silly (lovely)boy that he is. Should stop saying that he's nearly 22, 6'4" with size 14 feet!!
      spin3.gif mega vibes for you spin3.gif
      hhc lasted 5.5 hours WHAT?????
      :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::D

      Jinky come on honey - you know that time is running out - you need to start packing up what you want to take and then you can clean round as you go and the time gets nearer. And speak to your boss - if she is that nice you will be fine talking to her - its worse to put it off (((hugs)))



      Lady L - we want to know how you are honey good or bad????? 1 post at 6.09am wishing Penpen a happy birthday isnt saying anything about yourself - ecept that you are awake aaaawwfully early!!!!
      I agree 100% as I am sure everyone else does too:naughty::naughty:
      greenbee wrote: »
      jinky - talk to your manager, unlike lala's she obviously cares about you, so return her calls and she should be able to avoid any issues resulting from an unauthorised absence.
      JillD wrote: »
      Also wanted to say jinky - completely take your point that there may not even be a problem. The main reason I wanted to follow it up was because after years f having doubts and wondering I really reached the very very very very end of my tether last month, ad 10 days or so where I cried at least once a day about the way our family life is at the moment, the strain the constant conflict puts on the other children and on me and on our relationships. We just weren't functioning as a family at all. We needed (still need really) help and didnt know where to turn. But then yes, perhaps you're right and that's just him. Sigh.
      :grouphug::grouphug:I know the feeling:cool:

      Jinky - Just text or call your manager back and let her know you are Ok. She sounds like she is understanding and if you don't respond soon there could be repucussions so keep those lines of communication open. You know you can message me any time you like hon.

      Thank you all:o
      I did text my boss last night to apologise. She does know all thats going on with me right now, but she said because she didnt know what was happening that she had to mention it to the BIG BOSS. So I probably wont get paid this week:o:o
      She said had she known she could have covered for me, I told her not to worry about it as it was my own stupid fault:( and that I would phone BIG BOSS myself today to apologise:cool:

      I had a mega crying session last night on the phone to Daz last night as well, even he didnt know that I hadnt phoned work:o:o


      Anyway enough doom and gloom, feel better today although I do have a pounding headache, so I am glad I am ahead this week:D
      :heartpulsOnce a Flylady, always a Flylady:heartpuls
    • Penelope_Penguin
      Penelope_Penguin Posts: 17,242 Forumite
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      edited 21 October 2009 at 8:03AM
      Jinky, massive hugs to you - you always seem so upbeat, so it's heartbreaking to see you like this HSbearhugblinkie1.gif

      Have you had a word with your GP? They may be able to recommend something (not necessarily drugs ;) ) to get you through this :A Just remember that you have the Force of the Flyladies behind you - I know how supportive that is :T

      DD reminded me this morning that Mary Portas is coming to college today. I find that her style grates on me, but DD really likes her, especially what she did for charity shops :D

      Penny. x
      :rudolf: Sheep, pigs, hens and bees on our Teesdale smallholding :rudolf:
    • juliejim
      juliejim Posts: 7,943 Forumite
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      Hugs Jinks - hope you feel better soon.

      Froddy - hope you go on ok at the docs and you get to take the rest of the week off - if not just sign yourself off - you don't need a doctor's note for the first 5 days. I'll PM you later when I get in.

      Shower had, now dressed and ready for work so I suppose I'd better make a move!

      Byeeee
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    • jinky67
      jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
      Jinky, massive hugs to you - you always seem so upbeat, so it's heartbreaking to see you like this HSbearhugblinkie1.gif

      Have you had a word with your GP? They may be able to recommend something (not necessarily drugs ;) ) to get you through this :A Just remember that you have the Force of the Flyladies behind you - I know how supportive that is :T

      DD reminded me this morning that Mary Portas is coming to college today. I find that her style grates on me, but DD really likes her, especially what she did for charity shops :D

      Penny. x
      Already on anti-d's:cool:
      Its just everything else thats going on, and me being me not talking about it:o

      but dont worry, I should be back to my usual self soon hopefully:A:kisses3:
      :heartpulsOnce a Flylady, always a Flylady:heartpuls
    • Quillion
      Quillion Posts: 1,768 Forumite
      soappie wrote: »
      Morning all

      Piggers - re the appointment. I think it's really important that you attend it. Can't the older children help out with the younger ones? What about OH, Exh - or even your mother just for this one morning? Failing that, just take them with you.....

      I would take them all with me one way to guarantee being seen first :D

      Jinky Hugs hun we are all here for you xx

      Hugs for everyone else too.

      Pen Pen I am going to have a go that is my next mission lol.

      I went on the wii today first time for 19 days to do the fitness test and i have lost 1stone 3lbs i was amazed.
      Total lost now is 5 stone 3 lbs. Just had to share no-one elses is up :j:j
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