○•○•○ Friday 16ths Chat Thread ○•○•○

Shoe_Gal

sallyx wrote: »

Bit of a strange question but do you think that parents of 2 or more children have favourites? I mean Im sure they are loved equally but does anyone think that either themselves or their parents liked or favoured a sibling more or you were the favoured?

I think my sister is favoured now because she has provided grandchildren - and I haven't :rolleyes:

jacs76

sallyx wrote: »

Bit of a strange question but do you think that parents of 2 or more children have favourites? I mean Im sure they are loved equally but does anyone think that either themselves or their parents liked or favoured a sibling more or you were the favoured?

something you wish to share with the group sal?:D

jacs76

Well done snaggle pops:T us girlies are amazing:T


had a long old head throbbing day but have spoke to action man tonight (everyone else's hubby/partner has a nick name:D) and he is ringing tomorrow between half 3 and half 7 UK time :j I am really excited but I will probably cry:o
he keeps saying he is proud of me, something he would never say to my face :cool:

sallyx

jacs76 wrote: »

something you wish to share with the group sal?:D

PMSL Jacs....no nothing to confess :rotfl:
I was just wondering really after spending the afternoon with my mum and some of the things she says got me thinking

sallyx

jacs76 wrote: »

Well done snaggle pops:T us girlies are amazing:T


had a long old head throbbing day but have spoke to action man tonight (everyone else's hubby/partner has a nick name:D) and he is ringing tomorrow between half 3 and half 7 UK time :j I am really excited but I will probably cry:o
he keeps saying he is proud of me, something he would never say to my face :cool:

ahhhhh that something lovely for you to look forward too
So are you Sindy then to go with your action man?

jacs76

sallyx wrote: »

So are you Sindy then to go with your action man?

you think I am into 'games' now:rotfl:

scaredy_cat

i have 13 syns left - shall i have 2 peanut butter cups - 9 syns? 2 mint club biscuits - 11 syns? a cclub biscuit and a Cadbury fudge - 11 syns? or 4 Ryvita fruit crunch crispbreads? hmmmmm.... decisions.... decisons.....

jacs76

*Jacs has serious head on*

good god no sal, both my kids are a pain in the bum, don't like either of em never mind favour one over the other :rotfl:

na seriously, i thought after having dan and how protective i was/am of him i could never love another child the same.
i love them both equally for different reasons, if that makes sense.
but of course i do think its possible to have a favourite for various reasons like wishing it was the opposite sex, or it hasn't produced grandchildren or is gay or whatever.

jacs76

scaredy_cat wrote: »

i have 13 syns left - shall i have 2 peanut butter cups - 9 syns? 2 mint club biscuits - 11 syns? a cclub biscuit and a Cadbury fudge - 11 syns? or 4 Ryvita fruit crunch crispbreads? hmmmmm.... decisions.... decisons.....

crikey all those syns would make me hungry:D

bookseller1980

sallyx wrote: »

Bit of a strange question but do you think that parents of 2 or more children have favourites? I mean Im sure they are loved equally but does anyone think that either themselves or their parents liked or favoured a sibling more or you were the favoured?

TBH Sally DD2 was an 'accident' so I was a little bit anti. On top of that she was a monster baby - didn't sleep and screamed all evening. She was deaf due to an adenoid prob we didn't recognise and also dyslexic. DD1 was a star from the start and academically sucessful. The odds were definitely against DD2.
BUT she is such a friend to me now - so loving and sensible in a wacky sort of way.
DD1 is obviously great too but the sun has always shone on her and she always expects it to.
I guess what I am trying to say is that all children are different and you will always have slightly different feelings for them but you will always love them and you them but not necessarily in the same way.