Warrant for arest. will hubby go to jail?

DUTR

DX2 wrote: »

Why does the OP deserve to loose her home, up until a few months ago she didn't even know the children existed, the OP should not be penalised.

I already said in the post, more fool her if she marries someone she hardly knows :rolleyes:

thorsoak

Whatnow:

Were I in your shoes, I would be seriously questioning whether or not I knew the man that I had married: unless he could give me good explanations as to how his behaviour to his previous family - which was unknown to you when he married, I would be thinking - if he has done this once, he can do it again ........

Run, girl, run !

kelloggs36

I agree - just don't have children with him if you do decide to stay.

WhatNow?_2-2

DUTR wrote: »

I already said in the post, more fool her if she marries someone she hardly knows :rolleyes:

did i say i didnt know him before marrying him? my life is an uter mess right now and u are not helping. it was stupid off me to think i would find answers to my dilema on your forum.
go pik on someone else!

DUTR

WhatNow? wrote: »

did i say i didnt know him before marrying him? my life is an uter mess right now and u are not helping. it was stupid off me to think i would find answers to my dilema on your forum.
go pik on someone else!

It is not my forum, but I think you have been accepted in the gang that does 'run' this forum, had your hubbie posted himself about the dilemna he is in, I am confident he would not have got the responses from the posters that have replied.
Your life is what you make it, if it is a mess it is not my fault,you made the bed so you lay in it. I'm sure you could have partnered with someone who does not carry baggage that is causing you so much upset :rolleyes:

devils_vixen

OP can't really help with the original question but I sympathise your situation. I was with a man for a year and the amount of lies - I knew he had one child and heard through the grapevine he had another - he lied to me and said no then finally come clean after a year! Told him to F off! One thing lying but lying and denying you have kids Nah that's lower than scum, even more so when he can't be bothered putting his hand in his pocket to pay for them - if that's how he is then CSA should put their hands in his pockets and tie a knot in it for him!

jay1976

i realy feel for you op. I pay for my child who resides with her mother, even though i havnt always got on with her, ive always tried to pay. she even wanted extra monies that i tried to pay, but she still went to the csa. i found it very hard to deal with the csa but i did, this is what your husband will need to do. i dont believe they can take you house from you as its in your name, i would check with the citzens advice to check what all this means to you financialy. love is as stange thing isnt it? once youve got advice i feel you will feel a little better, take care

LizzieS_2

shell_542 wrote: »

So because she's only 6 months into her marriage and loves her husband, she shouldn't be angry at the man having been lying to her for god knows how long and even now, he's still not helping himself and would rather be arrested than sort his life out?

Shell, like you I could form an opinion, but where a couple (as in op case) have different initial thoughts, it is better the OP answers. The consequences of giving any information could result in either the OP covering for her husband or giving up her marriage - noe of us can decide which the OP really wants.

WhatNow?_2-2

I was looking for help but now it looks as if im cosing some of u to argue. this was not my intention. i have left my home for the time being as i need time to get used to this new situation. im hoping this will cose my husband to face up to his responsabilities. only time will tell.
thank u all for your posts. x

Sensemaya

WhatNow? wrote: »

I was looking for help but now it looks as if im cosing some of u to argue. this was not my intention. i have left my home for the time being as i need time to get used to this new situation. im hoping this will cose my husband to face up to his responsabilities. only time will tell.
thank u all for your posts. x

He should have left your home NOT you.

You had better get back in there double quick and he can leave - if you can get him out. Even if he does get out, I'm sure he still won't face up to his responsibilities.