Warrant for arest. will hubby go to jail?

Sensemaya

WhatNow? wrote: »

Thank you for your replies.
Im not looking forward to next month because i know my hubby wont atend court. I live in fear of the police knoking on my door. Will the csa find out where my hubby lives if the mortgage is in my name but not his? I read on other threads that they can sell houses to recouperate money? will they sell my house?

Is your hubs a man of straw? IE the house is in your sole name, he has no assets etc?

What reasons has he given for not attending court? And why is he acting in such a selfish manner? He has no intention of supporting his children from a previous relationship and is causing you unnecessary stress which is very upsetting to you.

I cannot type on this forum what I would do in your shoes.

karenx

Why does he not want to support his children? He is just making things worse for himself as the longer he leaves it the more arrears he is building up, therefor the larger the monthly payments will be! Which will end up effecting you, as I would assume he contributes towards the mortgage and bills? So if his payments are high the less able he will be contributing towards bills?

DX2

Sensemaya wrote: »

I cannot type on this forum what I would do in your shoes.

I don't think you need to lol I'm sure many feel the same way.

lynzpower

karenx wrote: »

Why does he not want to support his children? He is just making things worse for himself as the longer he leaves it the more arrears he is building up, therefor the larger the monthly payments will be! Which will end up effecting you, as I would assume he contributes towards the mortgage and bills? So if his payments are high the less able he will be contributing towards bills?

Worse, how is he in denial to his new wife that he has children. OP I really feel for you

DUTR

WhatNow? wrote: »

Thank you for your replies.
Im not looking forward to next month because i know my hubby wont atend court. I live in fear of the police knoking on my door. Will the csa find out where my hubby lives if the mortgage is in my name but not his? I read on other threads that they can sell houses to recouperate money? will they sell my house?

Like the other NRP says, there is no point trying to avoid the CSA, gosh I thought some of us NRPs were losers, but it seems you have married the lowest of the low (and that's something coming from me) , as my daddy told me when I was younger, 'you can run but you can't hide'.
Somehow I can't help but think the original post is a troll thread, however if it is not and you want to harbour a serial dodger then you deserve to lose your home I'm afraid.

DX2

DUTR wrote: »

Like the other NRP says, there is no point trying to avoid the CSA, gosh I thought some of us NRPs were losers, but it seems you have married the lowest of the low (and that's something coming from me) , as my daddy told me when I was younger, 'you can run but you can't hide'.
Somehow I can't help but think the original post is a troll thread, however if it is not and you want to harbour a serial dodger then you deserve to lose your home I'm afraid.

Why does the OP deserve to loose her home, up until a few months ago she didn't even know the children existed, the OP should not be penalised.

kelloggs36

Op won't be as the house is in her name only.

WhatNow?_2-2

your posts are really scary. my life turned upside down. im not a criminel. never did sumthing bad in all my life and now i keep on fighting with my hubby. he say the children are not his children and thats that. i think i shuld go to the court and explain what is hapening but my hubby is going crazy. my friend told me about this forum so i can use her pc to get help but all im geting is more worryes. i think i will listen to her and call nacsa. if i get arested i will loose my job. what can i do? wait in my house until they knok on my door to arest both of us? now i know how my friend feels becose she doesnt get help from her ex.

WhatNow?_2-2

DUTR wrote: »

Like the other NRP says, there is no point trying to avoid the CSA, gosh I thought some of us NRPs were losers, but it seems you have married the lowest of the low (and that's something coming from me) , as my daddy told me when I was younger, 'you can run but you can't hide'.
Somehow I can't help but think the original post is a troll thread, however if it is not and you want to harbour a serial dodger then you deserve to lose your home I'm afraid.

troll yourself.

DX2

WhatNow? wrote: »

your posts are really scary. my life turned upside down. im not a criminel. never did sumthing bad in all my life and now i keep on fighting with my hubby. he say the children are not his children and thats that. i think i shuld go to the court and explain what is hapening but my hubby is going crazy. my friend told me about this forum so i can use her pc to get help but all im geting is more worryes. i think i will listen to her and call nacsa. if i get arested i will loose my job. what can i do? wait in my house until they knok on my door to arest both of us? now i know how my friend feels becose she doesnt get help from her ex.

I doubt the court will entertain you if I'm honest. If your OH believes these are not his children why has he never disputed this via the proper channels? You won't get arrested, you won't loose your home, easy for me to say but don't panic.