(Ruby) Tuesday 13th-daily chat thread..

Snaggles

Jacs - no naughtiness, I promise!

Sal, you could be right, although Mr Sunday chased me hard at first and I was bowled over completely by that. There is something to be said for not being too available though, it does seem to keep people keen (and seems to work on both men and women).

(Land_of)_Maz

Snaggles wrote: »

I do have a gentleman caller.

It's the guy I went out with a couple of weeks ago. He's nice. Very sweet, very attentive, stable, sensible, quite attractive, everything I *should* want, in fact.

Keep hoping something will click into place, but it doesn't seem to be doing. He's very serious about me, wants a long term relationship, keeps talking about holidays next year, helping me decorate...he really wants to take care of me. There's just no wow factor.

Think I'm going to have to let him down gently but I hate upsetting people.

i'm going to ask the question.... and apologise to anyone who thinks it's too early in the morning...

but snags... have you had any moves yet? maybe the wow factor is in the bedroom moves?!

or if there have been moves already and there was no wow factor then maybe you are right....

now i'm not saying good sex is everything, but it can be the glue that sticks an otherwise samey relationship together.

Or on the other hand if everything else is pretty fine then good bedroom moves are less of an issue...

if you're lucky you get a mix of both....;)

sallyx

or if your unlucky you might get nadda

redsquirrel80

Snaggles wrote: »

I do have a gentleman caller.

It's the guy I went out with a couple of weeks ago. He's nice. Very sweet, very attentive, stable, sensible, quite attractive, everything I *should* want, in fact.

Keep hoping something will click into place, but it doesn't seem to be doing. He's very serious about me, wants a long term relationship, keeps talking about holidays next year, helping me decorate...he really wants to take care of me. There's just no wow factor.

Think I'm going to have to let him down gently but I hate upsetting people.

I think Sal is right - there is always much more instant 'wow' with a challenge.. but while you don't want to string him along, if you like him, do you think it's worth giving it a chance to get to know him, and see if there could be some long term gentle nice 'wow' rather than right-now-dramatic-WOW sort of 'wow'....?

sallyx

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jacs76

good grief mazzy, talking about oingy boingy this time in the morning making me blush!! (just jealous as im not getting any)

thank you pap you are ace sorry i am rushing as need to get a shower etc x

(Land_of)_Maz

sallyx wrote: »

or if your unlucky you might get nadda

and i so know how that feels too.......

bookseller1980

Caught up on Maz's life - I forget the diaries.
Wow! Great news on the house and the sofas are lovely. :T

Snaggles

(Land_of)_Maz wrote: »

i'm going to ask the question.... and apologise to anyone who thinks it's too early in the morning...

but snags... have you had any moves yet? maybe the wow factor is in the bedroom moves?!

or if there have been moves already and there was no wow factor then maybe you are right....

now i'm not saying good sex is everything, but it can be the glue that sticks an otherwise samey relationship together.

Or on the other hand if everything else is pretty fine then good bedroom moves are less of an issue...

if you're lucky you get a mix of both....;)

No, we haven't - only had one date and I behaved (more or less!).

He does say all the right things but I'm just not feeling it. Will see how things go this evening though...trying not to make any snap decisions.

sallyx

(Land_of)_Maz wrote: »

and i so know how that feels too.......

me too :rotfl: ah well could be worse I guess!