Single and in Debt Part 3- The problem of surplus and excess women

lilmissmup

Thanks Gwen, I am trying to not start crying again now, not cos of him but because of all you lovely ladies trying to keep me going.

Pervy hugs to all :grouphug:

Lula-Hula

Did someone mention a pervy hug ? I'm in .

Have to agree with others here, lilmissmuppF*Fabulous,

I've been with guys who I honestly thought I would never ever get over, but now I am really having the time of my life. And the pertinent bit there is 'my life'.

I have had some serious goddessing this morning; now have glossy dark hair again, pretty polished toe nails, smooth tanned legs & am just having a coffee break before I go & tackle the bathroom that looks like I've been slaughtering something in it.

Cleaning & tidying my home is actually enjoyable, I've gone right off the whole OS cooking thing again though - cooking food makes me fat, simple as that :rolleyes:

Must go clean now & keep blowing clouds away so my bedlinen will dry outside in the lovely free wind

bye for now
lula
xx

Shoe_Gal

Hi Lula

:j:j to pampering - I love feeling F Fabulous

lilmissmup

Lula-Hula wrote: »

Did someone mention a pervy hug ? I'm in .

Have to agree with others here, lilmissmuppF*Fabulous,

I've been with guys who I honestly thought I would never ever get over, but now I am really having the time of my life. And the pertinent bit there is 'my life'.

Thanks sweetie.

I know I will get over him in time, am just very angry at the hurt he has caused me over the last few weeks when there was no need, he was supposed to love me and supposedly still does, just don't get how humans can love someone and treat them like a puppet....

I gave him everything, even took him to New York this year for his 30th birthday pressie but he would rather get his kicks from stringing me along and fantasy games....:mad:

Lula-Hula

I often wonder at how humans behave towards eachother .

You're right, you will get over it & the easiest way to do that is to not have any contact, if he persists in messing about then I would urge you to just refuse to speak to him, or not reply to any texts or emails. Easier said than done I know, but better for you in the long term.

I f you really cant resist talking to him then the only thing you are allowed to say is :

"F*** Off I'm Fabulous, far too fabulous for you."

I have cleaned my bathroom & it gleams but I am also rather cross;

Ipsos have not yet sent me the redemption code for my Amazon Voucher :mad:

Today I received a letter from washing machine insurance cover peeps saying if I sign up before 23rd November then I will get a £5 discount. Their letter dated 21st October, Post Office delivers one month later :mad:.

Grrrrrr, hate losing out on discounts so have 'predated' my return documents & attempted to blag the discount

Off to do some archaeology in DDs bedroom now ...

lilmissmup

Ha Ha thanks again Lula, I changed my mobile number the other day (love O2 for doing it instantly for me and for free too!) so only way he can contact is me via email.

Like a lovely MSE lady who has been emailing me says, if he has any respect left for me he will finally leave me alone, but not sure he knows what respect is :rolleyes:

Just had a bath and exfolitated so nice and clean now, wanted to go for a walk but looks like its gonna chuck it down, hopefully will pass over as think fresh air might do me good.

I remembered another reason not to speak to him during it, think I need to right a list of exactly why he doesn't deserve me.

TDQO

Hey LMM I'm just gonna echo the others advice... ignore him! It really is the only way. It's bloody hard, especially if you get a bit tipsy and sentimental but no contact at all is definitely the only way to break away from him.

On the DFW front I've done sod all... except my FWB did bake a load of cupcakes last night so that'll keep my sweet tooth satisfied over the weekend.

I've got to finish my accounting & management assignment this weekend... would be awesome if I got it done completely today but I can't see it happening!

Lula... you never know, it may just arrive in the nick of time... good luck with the blag!

lilmissmup

I won't copy it here but the !!!!!! has actually just emailed me and god hes got a mouthful of a reply from me, I am in such disbelief in what he said I had to post it on my diary.

I am so livid right now :mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:

TDQO

Oooh er, I'm off to have a shufty at your diary then...have a dodgy hug in the meantime: :grouphug:

Souk08

Lula-Hula wrote: »

"F*** Off I'm Fabulous, far too fabulous for you."

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Ooh I got a birthday card that says 'Get out of my way I'm fabulous'! That's a great phrase to use too!