Single and in Debt Part 3- The problem of surplus and excess women

Lula-Hula

Souk08 wrote: »

Unless of course you were looking for a slapper!!!!

As a slapper I am always totally honest about what I want! And I think you have been too Dawn. Honestly it just takes time. I used Gumtree for all my FWB's and got such oddballs replying in their droves, as well as the guys I have on the go. it's totally a numbers game.

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That wasnt meant to be a snide comment at you Souk :A like you say, you are very honest about what you are looking for & that's really what I was looking for too, but it didnt stop the wannabe wedders & daddies from trying it on :rolleyes:

I actually think that's what online dating serves up best. It's when you're looking for something a bit real, long term or signifcant that I think online dating comes adrift. People can portray themselves as anything they want & many are not really looking for long term love, they just think they'll get better responses if they say they are.


I just dont want to see you get used or hurt lilmissmupp * feels all protective*

sarahb123_3

This enforced imprisonment has made me realise I definitely need a boyfriend. I have never been so bored in my life. I can't do anything! I know a man isn't the answer to everything but I think one would at least be the answer to this boredom. Am avoiding the front room as my OCD flatmate is annoying me:mad:. Can't get out as even going to town would be treacherous. I don't think I can stand much more of this. :mad: I need a plan. :rolleyes: I need alcohol.

Souk08

Not offended honest. Would hardly have survived all those years as a holiday rep getting called 'Oy rep' if I was!!!! I agree that online dating is good for random stuff but if I wanted someone to call me 'snuffle wuffle' and 'choochy face' I'd steer well clear. Some right oddities out there. I have afull folder which me and the gays sometimes amuse ourselves with. I got loads of willy pictures to which i used to snootily respond 'Do you have a face?!' You think I'd never seen one before but not going to see that if I don't like the face !!!!!!!!!

Sarah I know how you feel. I'm very bored and my boys can't get to me. Woe is me!!!

Money_Fritter

sarahb123 wrote: »

This enforced imprisonment has made me realise I definitely need a boyfriend. I have never been so bored in my life. I can't do anything! I know a man isn't the answer to everything but I think one would at least be the answer to this boredom. Am avoiding the front room as my OCD flatmate is annoying me:mad:. Can't get out as even going to town would be treacherous. I don't think I can stand much more of this. :mad: I need a plan. :rolleyes: I need alcohol.

Know what you mean about OCD. My last girlfriend had it. The final straw was when I was around at her house washing the dishes and cups. I put the cups back into the right cupboard, but there was a specific place for each cup and all the handles had to be lined to the right. She shouted at me and I just laughed and said I cant be with you. A few weeks later I split up with her.

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Lula-Hula

If anyone called me choochy face or snuffle wuffle I would slap them. Very hard.

If anyone has a boyfriend that can 'amuse' them for a whole week, then please share them.

Souk08

If I had to live with anyone for a whole week there would be murder. I even struggled when my own sister was over from Oz in the summer. I'm just used to my own space and not very tolerant. And she drank water VERY SLOWLY in the mornings (See what I mean!)

sarahb123_3

Souk08 wrote: »

If I had to live with anyone for a whole week there would be murder.

Can I send my flatmate round?

Souk08

LOL. I can be a bit OCD myself! Okay more than a bit. I have a months meal plan on the fridge, the house is spotless and I iron my duvet cover before it goes on!!!!

Lula-Hula

With you on the living arrangements Souk -

My home is my castle & I am the queen

Money_Fritter

Souk08 wrote: »

LOL. I can be a bit OCD myself! Okay more than a bit. I have a months meal plan on the fridge, the house is spotless and I iron my duvet cover before it goes on!!!!

Yeah I iron my duvet cover and have a meal plan and try and keep things tidy, but lining cups up and handles. and she would get on her hands and knees and clean the kitchen floor with a toothbrush, pmsl