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Single and in Debt Part 3- The problem of surplus and excess women

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  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    Cheers MF! I only signed up as was £20 for six months.

    Might take a break for a week or so for looking, need to be concentrating on me and moneymaking really!
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • sarahb123_3
    sarahb123_3 Posts: 2,767 Forumite
    I think you look really nice littlemissmup icon7.gif. Do we get to see any of the replies you get? Am very nosey:D.
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  • Bowski_1011
    Bowski_1011 Posts: 1,041 Forumite
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    lilmissmup wrote: »

    That's a great profile. They can be so hard to do but you've got pretty much everything covered. I am sure there are other good pictures of you. You've got a lovely face and a very nice smile which alot of men like :D

    If men aren't getting back to you don't take it personal. There's nothing wrong with you, you're clearly fabulous! :A
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  • Lula-Hula
    Lula-Hula Posts: 7,868 Forumite
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    lilmissmup wrote: »


    It's a lovely picture & a great profile :A

    You come across as very warm, honest & genuine which I think are great qualities in anyone :D. I just hope that these qualities are not your downfall as far as online dating go :rolleyes:. When I was trying it out I did sneak a look at other women on the site & frankly, my profile was rare in that I was literate & not an over made up slapper :o.

    Just remember that you are fabulous & deserve the best :D
  • I agree Lula Hula, Alot of people on Match come across as fake and as slappers just looking for a one night stand, same with the fellas as well sometimes. I think lilmissmup is genuine and honest, I would go for somebody like you rather than the slapper.

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  • Souk08
    Souk08 Posts: 3,240 Forumite
    Unless of course you were looking for a slapper!!!!

    As a slapper I am always totally honest about what I want! And I think you have been too Dawn. Honestly it just takes time. I used Gumtree for all my FWB's and got such oddballs replying in their droves, as well as the guys I have on the go. it's totally a numbers game.
    'The road to a friends house is never long'
  • Souk08 wrote: »
    Unless of course you were looking for a slapper!!!!

    As a slapper I am always totally honest about what I want! And I think you have been too Dawn. Honestly it just takes time. I used Gumtree for all my FWB's and got such oddballs replying in their droves, as well as the guys I have on the go. it's totally a numbers game.


    Yeah sorry Souk08, no offence intended.
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  • Souk08
    Souk08 Posts: 3,240 Forumite
    Absolutely none taken lovey! Just that everyone's looking for different things. My mate was looking for fun and used it (with great success) a few years back. I wouldn't use it cos I don't want a boyfriend. I'm totally on Dawn's side here, just saying that she's honest and will find someone nice soon if that's how it's meant to be.
    'The road to a friends house is never long'
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    :rotfl:

    Awwww Souk0 ya big slapper I loves ya! ;)

    Thanks girlies (and MF) for being nice, of course I will share any replies!!! :p
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • Souk08 wrote: »
    Absolutely none taken lovey! Just that everyone's looking for different things. My mate was looking for fun and used it (with great success) a few years back. I wouldn't use it cos I don't want a boyfriend. I'm totally on Dawn's side here, just saying that she's honest and will find someone nice soon if that's how it's meant to be.


    Totally agree things happen for a reason, I do want to meet somebody to settle down with and have kids eventually, but I have wasted lots of my life staying with somebody I should not have. Now I just want to have a bit of fun and then see what happens, and if that involves a few FWB's or one night stands then so be it.

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