Single and in Debt Part 3- The problem of surplus and excess women

SunderlandBlackCat

lincs1205 wrote: »

I will have to rent as will not be able to get a mortgage due to a default i have on my file from egg still have another four years before that drops off.:mad:

Hi Lincs

I have a mate who is an independent mortgage advisor & he says he can still find occasionally find products at reasonable APR's for people who have been discharged from bankruptcy but still have it on their records so don't write off the possibility. You're unlikely to get a mortgage directly from a "high street" bank but a whole of market mortgage advisor might be able to help.

Souk08

Welcome Lincs. This thread is ace! Enjoy and look forward to getting yourself sorted with help from all these lovely ladies and the odd gent. X

Buffythedebtslayer

Lincs, if it makes you feel any I still live at home at the ripe old age of 33! Its great in some ways and awful in other ways eh?

sorry I haven't been posting much ladies, work is !!!!!, I am tired not long till Christmas tho

so hugs all round xxxx

Lula-Hula

Yay, go Carole you fantastically lucky girl with your reckless night out

would love to do some of that, DD at parties & sleepovers this weekend ... guess I'll be here again as usual though

Have just finished home job so going to pour myself a G&T then watch spooks,

back later
xx

lincs1205

Hi Everyone, makeup, firefox, souk08, sunderland blackcat and buffythe debt slayer, sarahb123 thankyou so much for starting this fab thread, sorry if i have missed anyone, i love this site i am slowly reading through the whole thread at page 20 at the mo, firefox i love those peeptoe shoes they are gorgeous i am rubbish at walking in heels although am determined to nail it before my brother gets married next december & hopefully find a plus one to go with :kisses2:will have to wait and see, anyone got any suggestions for low cost ways to meet people, i am rubbish at internet dating i speak to people over the net i make friends with them on facebook then i don't hear anything else don't know what that says about me.

ziggles50

CaroleM wrote: »

Lula Hula - I used to do the wearing nothing but black but it got a bit....:its bad enough that I got fat when I didnt want to but now I'm depressed because I never wear cheerful or nice clothes. So now I try to avoid all black outfits, and it makes me feel quite a lot better about myself.

Having moaned about my spending yesterday....I didnt quite make it home to my own bed last night, so had to come to work in last nights clothes....so to make my very low cut dress work appropriate I had to pop to new look and buy a along sleeved tshirt to go underneath it, and some clean knickers, and to boots for a toothbrush. So thats some more money I have p**sed up against a wall as my work friend used to say. Totally worth it though!

Ditto to the colourful clothes CaroleM
And hi-five on the not making it home...and if it was worth it then good even if it did involve unplanned expenditure:D

Buffythedebtslayer wrote: »

Lincs, if it makes you feel any I still live at home at the ripe old age of 33! Its great in some ways and awful in other ways eh?

Buffy and Lincs- I'm the same and 30...i feel you totally:T...i can't be a dirty stop out because of the parentals...spend my life making loads of excuses and driving home at all hours since we son't want any lectures or disapproving looks:o

lincs1205 wrote: »

i am rubbish at internet dating i speak to people over the net i make friends with them on facebook then i don't hear anything else don't know what that says about me.

Nothing at all...i think it goes with the territory...lots of effort for little gain- loads of the nicer ones seem to be time wasters- i reckon they trawl and chat then move on when they find someone 'nicer'.:mad:
Saw a book in borders tonite about how to go internet dating...maybe i should get it and dispense the pearls of wisdom to everyone who needs it and those of us sick of Plenty of freaks style online dating;)

Buffythedebtslayer

ziggles50 wrote: »

Buffy and Lincs- I'm the same and 30...i feel you totally:T...i can't be a dirty stop out because of the parentals...spend my life making loads of excuses and driving home at all hours since we son't want any lectures or disapproving looks:o

Oh yeah.........the having to text if you are going to be late, the paying for expensive cabs home.

It is lovely in many ways but the social life takes an absolute killing.

xxx

Buffythedebtslayer

oh and Lincs, I suck at online dating, chatted to one guy for about 2 months, he gave me his facebook contact, turns out despite the flirting he was in a relationship!

ho hum

xxx

FeeFee

Hello lively bunch! :hello:

Still the best thread on MSE I see! Have popped on tonight to post on the PPI thread as I have had the totally f_f_fabulous news that Egg are repaying me to the tune of 980 squidoodles... hoorah!!

I know many of you are seasoned MSErs on here but for those that aren't - get around to checking out PPI reclaiming, it took me 6 months to get around to it but was worth the 2 stamps!!! Happy Xmas :santa2: G & T anyone??? :beer:

I lurk regularly to check up on you all (can't post from work), but haven't been posting much as up to my sodding eyeballs in homework for some random masters programme thingy that I signed myself up for in an over-enthusiastic moment and now have to succeed at cos all eyes are on me...:rolleyes: ho hum don't have get myself in a pickle sometimes...

Nice to hear that some of the SAIDs are getting some dirtystopout action - go Carole - will live vicariously through you if thats ok???

Big slug of pre-xmas cheer and a dodgy hug to everyone :grouphug:
xxFeeFee

Souk08

Ha, wasn't in this thread at the start Lincs but have been around a lot lately!