Must be the week for it :(

maggied_2

Well I can join the seemingly long list of people whose relationships seem to have gone belly up over the last week!

OH has decided he wants me out after another blistering display (IMO) of his unwillingness to ever put me first.

Luckily I have my little flat to move back into - my tenant moves out this weekend. He gets to stay in the lovely house we've been renting, in the village he grew up in. I get to go back home with my tail between my legs leaving all the nice stuff we've bought behind because it won't fit in my flat (I know it's only stuff but really...) and somehow take our 3 kittens with me - God knows how they're going to manage in a first floor flat

I'm coming up to 33 and due to suffering an ectopic pregnancy earlier this year have nothing to show for the past 4 years except a scarred stomach and one fallopian tube less than I started with. What a catch!

Everything was going so well recently after a large falling out a few months ago and now this....feel such an idiot.

TangledMemories_2

Hun, from the sounds of it, you've done nothing wrong.
At least you have your own space to revert back to.
I'm so sorry to hear of your ectopic pregnancy...rather than being selfish, your OH should be thinking how this has affected you mentally, not just physically.

He obviously doesn't deserve you...so let him have what he wants and see who's the first to come crawling.

*Huge hugs*

foxy-roxy

I know what you mean about it being the week for it, i have noticed how many relationships seem to have ended lately, it's really sad, but i really hope you can all support each other and get each other through it.
Good for you that you have your flat to go back to, but with 3 kittens i can sympathise, i lived in a ground floor flat with 2 kittens, they were lovely but my god, they come alive at night.
Good Luck, keep us posted on how you get on.

consultant31

Couldn't just read and run but have no advice except to say look after yourself, make sure you remember to eat.

Get together with some good friends and go out, have a laugh if you can and sooner than you think, things will begin to look better.

So sorry about your ectopic pregnancy, but it seems that it perhaps brought out your BFs true nature, which is obviously not caring and considerate.

You seem well shot of him to be honest x

maggied_2

Thanks everyone. My dad's coming over to get me soon....God how old am I?

Feel utterly wretched, work have been great though and have booked the rest of the week off. Called his mum to say goodbye, kittens are packed and I'm off

pelirocco

TangledMemories wrote: »

Hun, from the sounds of it, you've done nothing wrong.
At least you have your own space to revert back to.
I'm so sorry to hear of your ectopic pregnancy...rather than being selfish, your OH should be thinking how this has affected you mentally, not just physically.

He obviously doesn't deserve you...so let him have what he wants and see who's the first to come crawling.

*Huge hugs*

How do know that?

maggied_2

Thanks for the helpful comment pelirocco, I didn't say I'd done nothing wrong, am feeling rather fragile at the mo so any chance you could go and be contrary somewhere else?

bulchy

maggied wrote: »

Thanks everyone. My dad's coming over to get me soon....God how old am I?

Feel utterly wretched, work have been great though and have booked the rest of the week off. Called his mum to say goodbye, kittens are packed and I'm off

Theres nothing wrong with getting your family to help you out, thats what there for, no matter how old you are. Good luck to you, take care of yourself, sorry dont have any real advice for you.
Sue xx

Rockporkchop

Oh Maggied, really sorry to hear that.

Don't just leave all the nice stuff for him and walk away with nothing - get him to pay you for your half. Or take what is yours and give it away to family or even charity!

Chin up hun.

maggied_2

Thanks RPC - I'm getting him to give me half for most stuff - I bought quite an expensive bed when we moved here that he says he can't afford to give me half for on top of everything else. Shall I take it and see if I can store it somewhere until I sell the flat? I wqs lying in it last night thinking how much I was going to miss it!

newcook

yes - take the bed and put it in your flat!!! im sure he has a sofa he can sleep on (unless you are taking that too!!!!)