its over :-(

GettingHitched

My advice?

Go get your hair done, paint your nails, watch Dirty Dancing and then move on...cheating morons dont deserve to be cried over

bulchy

myothercarisaferrari wrote: »

I've moved to my mums, 250 miles from him. He has pretty much blamed me for it.

I think there is someone else but I dont care. He can rot in hell.

thanks guys, it hurts so bad x

Take care of yourself, glad you have your mam to support you.
Suex

Minxy_Bella

myothercarisaferrari wrote: »

I've moved to my mums, 250 miles from him. He has pretty much blamed me for it.

I think there is someone else but I dont care. He can rot in hell.

thanks guys, it hurts so bad x

I'm so sorry you're feeling so awful but the good thing is that he's ended things with you because you moved away, not because you've done anything wrong or that he got bored or whatever. You made the conscious decision to move North for presumably good reasons and to make your life better.

You go, girl!!

There aren't many men who'd be able to cope with a long-distance relationship so let him go off and be with whoever. There are loads of lovely Geordie men who'd love to take your mind off him!

Get yourself out on the town, missus!

xxxx

myothercarisaferrari

Hi Bella, he didnt finish me because I moved. He finished me Saturday and I came up here yesterday as I have nowhere else to go and no friends and family where we were living x

Rummer

Now he has gone there is space in your life for the perfect man to come. What is for you won't go by you.

newlifeahead

Hi myothercarisaferrari

I was going to start by saying that I am sorry to hear what has happened, but my goodness you sound like a strong woman.
I can really relate to how you are feeling. Been there done that 5 years ago, now wonder why I wasted so much time on such an fool.

Anyway, I know it hurts lots now, but I have no doubt in my mind that you will not feel this way for very long.

I am sure your mom will take good care of you and you will be treated better by those that really do love you.

If he ever tries to contact you when he notices that you are not there and he needs you, just smile and tell him "Thanks"...he did you a great favour.... That might just confuse the hell out of him.:rotfl:

What is up with these men lately... goodness me.


Take care :grouphug: (have one of these sexy hugs)

Minxy_Bella

myothercarisaferrari wrote: »

Hi Bella, he didnt finish me because I moved. He finished me Saturday and I came up here yesterday as I have nowhere else to go and no friends and family where we were living x

Oh, sorry, hun - I got the wrong end of the stick.

Well, good for you for sorting yourself out so quickly! And I still think you should get yourself down the Quayside in a boob tube with all your mates and paint the toon red!

((HUGS))

myothercarisaferrari

Hey guys, came back today to sort some stuff out.

He's a !!!!!!! and I hope it rots in hell. I have to figure out how to move my stuff up there and find somewhere to live etc but I can't afford it x

Stephb1986_2

Where are you moving from and to?

Sending you loads of love and hugs

Steph xx

myothercarisaferrari

morning guys.

Well the last 5 days have been the hardest I have ever faced. I have been stronger than I thought I would and I am trying to stay positive. I did have a moment on Tuesday where I phoned him and begged him to come back.

He didn't.

I sent him an email yesterday basically telling how I felt. I hope he feels guiltly and he has just text me now saying he was happy until recently etc and he hopes in time I can forgive him.

I have spoken to his mother about getting some money for the house. He can have it but I just want my share and I what I paid into it. She is putting it in my account today so although I am techinically homeless and jobless at least I have that.

I am packing the rest of my bits today, cry some more (as its all I have done) and I am actually going down to London for a few weeks to stay with a relative. No pressure to get a job, just chill out and figure what I want to do.

A week ago I had a lovely life, we had problems, but we mumbled through. Now a few days I am picking up the pieces. I am scared, terrified, nervous and excited at the next stage.

I'm not sure how I will cope but I have to x

Thanks you MSERs, I'm not sure when i am back online but speak soon xx