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its over :-(

sorry MSERs for posting this

After being one who spouts of at women who stick with fellas who give them crap, my OH has finished me today.

I'm devastated, can't eat, can't sleep. Not even a good enough reason 'you've been a brilliant girlfriend, its not you it me' crap. Whatever.

Girls if a bloke ever makes you feel as low and crap as I do, he isn't worth it:money:
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  • awwww *cuddle*
    Im sorry to read that, what has happened? is it nothing that can be worked out?
  • Sorry to hear that.
    Has your relationship been in a poor state for a while or is it a bolt from the blue?
    Would he consider trying Relate or something to resolve any issues? In what way is it "just him"?
    I have a gift for enraging people, but if I ever bore you it'll be with a knife :D Louise Brooks
    All will be well in the end. If it's not well, it's not the end.
    Be humble for you are made of earth. Be noble for you are made of stars
  • Sending you ((((big hugs)))).
  • lynzpower
    lynzpower Posts: 25,311 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    If he was making you feel low, crap about yourself and rubbish, then he has done you a favour - remember that.

    ((hug))
    :beer: Well aint funny how its the little things in life that mean the most? Not where you live, the car you drive or the price tag on your clothes.
    Theres no dollar sign on piece of mind
    This Ive come to know...
    So if you agree have a drink with me, raise your glasses for a toast :beer:
  • debs2327
    debs2327 Posts: 1,172 Forumite
    (((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))
    sorry to hear it hun xx hope your ok xx
    wins :- x2 hair dyes ,mascara, epilator,personalised card , glass photo ,
    comp angels please throw some luck my way
    :D:j:D:A:)
  • Aww hugs :grouphug:, I can imagine how you must be feeling just now. Makes it even worse if he didn't give a good reason. I'm hoping you can get the answers you deserve and salvage things if thats what you want :grouphug:
  • Oh im sorry :( Remember though these feelings dont last forever there is an end to it all you probably just cant see it now ;)

    I agree with lynzpower though if he made you feel like that then he isnt worth it :) your worth a lot more ;)

    Sending you hugs!
  • I am so sorry to hear that - it will be a painful for weeks but it will get easier. Be good to yourself and surround yourself with good people.
  • CG77
    CG77 Posts: 1,210 Forumite
    Oh gosh, sorry to hear this. It really is a terrible feeling and hurts like hell at first, but as I'm sure you know, it'll ease with time.

    Try to surround yourself with family and close friends who'll help to take your mind off things till you start to feel better.

    Hugs from me too-I remember that awful feeling well.

    CG. x
    New Year, New Me!!!
    Weight loss mission 2012 has officially begun!!
    :jLoss so far: 3 stone 4lbs:j
  • I've moved to my mums, 250 miles from him. He has pretty much blamed me for it.

    I think there is someone else but I dont care. He can rot in hell.

    thanks guys, it hurts so bad x
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