MSE Pregnancy Club XVI

nikkit72

beenie , the only fees he will have is through paypal , but if he does a straight refund he will get no fees , he can also claim all fees through ebay so he will not lose nothing , don't offer him anything , he can give a 2nd chance offer to the other buyer so no loss again

BeenieCat

Thanks nikkit, he didn't answer the phone so i've just sent a very grovelly email saying i'll cover his paypal fees and the difference between me and next bidder.

Gawd, i hate myself so much. I blame my mother totally (lol). Haven't bid on the phone after all this, and not going to either lol!! I think i'll wait and see what the definite damage is on Monday (MOT) before i commit to anymore purchases :rolleyes:

/shoots self.

MERFE

afternoon, well spent most of the morning in a and e. I phoned NHS direct this morning who had the on call doc phone me back, he advised going to a and e. After waiting an age they sent me through to the on call same day treatment bit but the doc in there refered for someone to come and check me so I had to go through a and e again. Loads of waiting around, doc checked and cervix is closed which is a good sign, bleeding is slowing down again and no more clots. I've been referrred for another scan on monday afternoon. So its just wait and see now.

When I got home i called my mums to check my little sister can come watch the kids so i can go for my scan and mum isnt there, she has gone to visit my grandparents because grandad has been taken into hospital. He needs an operation but can not have one because his pre-existing conditions mean he is too weak to survive an operation. Dont know much more but stepdad is going to call me as soon as he hears anything and get little sis to call when she gets home, she is just at the cinema with friends so oblivious to anything thats going on.

Evansangel

Merfe, *hugs* i hope its all ok at the scan on monday, i really do xx

MERFE

me too EA, thanks. There is a part of me that feels I just wanna know either way and another that thinks I just would like to pretend everything is OK and rather not know if it isnt but I have to find out.

Evansangel

Is this bleeding worse then last time? How annoying that the EPU is closed over the w/end.
I thought they would of scanned you at A&E

MERFE

I dont think they can in a and e, it was a gynae doc that came to examine me, because the bleeding is not heavy and I am not in pain they do not need to monitor me. They aready know I am not at risk of eptopic pregnancy because of the previous scan. The clots and bleeding this morning were heavier than last time and it lasted a little longer but has really eased of again. The epac is really a mon-fri 9-5 place, appointment is at 2:40 on monday so I've got all day to stress about it, I did have a mini panic about the school run then remebered it was half term. I'm working with my manager tomorrow - who is lovely and will probably try to send me home but I know we'll be too busy on a sunday, but I'll have a chat with her and let her know about the scan because if its bad news i'll not be in on monday night.

kindofagilr

Evansangel wrote: »

Sellers aren't allowed to leave negative feedback now, but they can leave follow up feedback in reply to your negative feedback.

Also, if a seller leaves negative feedback in the positive feedback bit they get in trouble cause its naughty

I once bid on a load of stuff when i was like 15 and didn't pay, and they blocked my ebay account and my email address so i couldn't re sign up. Doesn't matter cause since i've grown up i've signed up with a spare email i had and now have 32 positive feedbacks, go me x

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I think thats really harsh, I just sold a load of stuff, I'd be foaming if someone messed me around and I couldnt leave neg!

Merfe I am sorry to hear you are having a bad time, I am pleased your cervix is closed

I am sorry to hear about your grandad

kindofagilr

What can me and OH have for tea please????

BeenieCat

I agree kindof, cos i sell stuff aswell and think buyers have far too much power!

Merfe, thinking of you :grouphug:

Kindof i'm gonna have a takeaway - so naughty but it's X Factor night Think i'm gonna have a parmo