Mid-Week Blues - *****Daily Chat Thread 16 Sep*****

(Land_of)_Maz

i like new look muchly!

Snaggles

jacs76 wrote: »

I know I am slightly slow and behind the times but has snaggle pops got back with shrek

:eek: Hell no!!! :rotfl:


And never will!!


For some reason it's just not that easy to blank him when he contacts me. There is obviously something between us that neither of us can quite let go of, but it's very destructive, and I'm not putting myself through that again.

Going to find a nice man this time. But not for another 11 weeks.

Snaggles

What are you eyeing up in Dotty P's our Spudly?

tenmah

Snaggles wrote: »

I know...I wont, I promise. I honestly don't want him back, he just stopped everything hurting for a bit that's all. I was so unhappy about Mr Sunday, and suddenly I'm coping okay. But I wont ever, ever go back.

Even if he promised to tie me to a chair in a darkened room (in a good way)... :rotfl: :rotfl:

That is what i meant about being strong though. I am sure if my ex came to me and asked me to go back to him, I probably would because the thought of being on my own again is not nice, but what would that make me (not that I think he will, I just wonder about it) because he treated me so badly that I would be an idiot to even contemplate it (but I know i would)

I think my daughter would disown me though!

I read what your ex said about you blowing his mind - that is quite a statement. Not that I am suggesting you do anything about it because i think Maz and the others would string me up if I did and also having lurked and followed the relationship I wouldn't suggest such a thing anyway.

God it is so easy to tell others what to do, whilst knowing I would prbably do the oppposite because I am a complete mug

Burlesque_Babe

Snaggles wrote: »

Aww BB, that made me feel a bit teary! :grouphug:

oooh Sorry, I hope not in a bad way. I can understand just what you are going through - it's hard to keep strong and resolve not to feel anything, but the longer you can leave it the easier it gets. I've changed so much over the last year or so - probably much of it has been 'forced' upon me because of my OH being a !!!!!!, but it's made me much more independent and assertive when it comes to relationships and less sensitive to general stuff which is chucked from a great height. And you know what - the more I am seen to be independent and less sensitive to the brown stuff being chucked - it seems to make me that bit more respected and the less brown stuff comes my way.

Of course, it has also made me a cynical and a bitter old mare, but hey, we can't have everything :rotfl:

jacs76

Snaggles wrote: »

:eek: Hell no!!! :rotfl:


And never will!!


For some reason it's just not that easy to blank him when he contacts me. There is obviously something between us that neither of us can quite let go of, but it's very destructive, and I'm not putting myself through that again.

Going to find a nice man this time. But not for another 11 weeks.

phew eeeeeeeeeeee:eek: i can breathe again now:D

spud30

Snaggles wrote: »

What are you eyeing up in Dotty P's our Spudly?

I need tops that arent black. I realised just how dull my clothes are, all black and grey.

Not buying just looking. They emailed me Love this one - still black, but not just black

Burlesque_Babe

oh, and can I join Maz in tying you to a chair? Can I? Can I? huh? huh?
Pleasssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssse :rotfl:

jacs76

do you know what i love you lot, i am unusually up and doen emotionally at the mo but look where i have turned for conversation today...says it all.



anyway.....yes my little potato pal, what have you got your eyes on in dotty p's

ghostmadlittlemiss

beanielou wrote: »

Why is the month too long for my money???

I'd have that in my sig if there was room.
Kayleigh