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What has my partner got to do with it?

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  • Oldernotwiser
    Oldernotwiser Posts: 37,425 Forumite
    Vicky123 wrote: »
    This has been answered lots of times already the OP herself admits to being in a relationship and living as HAW because she calls him her partner, not flat mate or friend but "partner"
    Maybe not what anyone else calls a relationship but officially it is a relationship and the rules as such apply.

    I totally agree with this. If the person in question is someone you go on dates with (or even sleep with occasionally) then why describe him as a partner?
  • System
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    I'm pretty sure even if the OP described him as her boyfriend that would still get the same response?
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  • Oldernotwiser
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    I'm pretty sure even if the OP described him as her boyfriend that would still get the same response?

    There's an enormous difference between " my boyfriend and I rent rooms in a shared house" and "my partner and I live together"!
  • System
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    There's an enormous difference between " my boyfriend and I rent rooms in a shared house" and "my partner and I live together"!
    There is? Sorry, I honesty have gotten the impression from some posts on here that there wasn't, so i've been a bit confused! Ahh that's ok then :D
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  • seven-day-weekend
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    edited 30 August 2009 at 12:16AM
    I can't afford to live on my own either, thats why i share with friends...

    If you are only sharing with friends, than you are not LTAHAW. My son can't afford to live on his own either, so shares with a male friend in separate rooms. Now if his girlfriend were to move in and sleep in his room etc, that would be an entirely different thing.
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  • thorsoak
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    Well maybe it's the fact that we've emptied a bottle of Jacobs Creek Merlot between the two of us - but this thread makes me think that we're all going to hell in a handbasket!

    Astrowife - by definition a "partner" is someone that you live with though not necessarily married to - but there is commitment.

    Do you feel that there cannot be commitment without financial input - whether from the two partners or from the state? Is that what we have come to?
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