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declared br today but partner taking it very badly

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  • philnicandamy
    philnicandamy Posts: 15,685 Forumite
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    Oh blimey hans...as others have said he could cancel the bankruptcy out BUT he'll find its not easy and certainly not cheap to do....

    http://www.insolvency.gov.uk/pdfs/guidanceleafletspdf/Canmybankruptcybecancelled.pdf
    We all die. The goal isn't to live forever, the goal is to create something that will
  • So_Sad_Angel
    So_Sad_Angel Posts: 7,363 Forumite
    Awww Hans its sounds a very tough situation for you Honey <<hugs>>

    I know you say that most of the debt was his tax/failed business debt so no wonder he is feeling a bit low. Does your OH have the potential to repay the residual that he will be left with if he revokes the BR order??

    He needs to speak to one of the debt charities asap...& you both need to sit down & talk through how you feel . Maybe go out for some fresh air & a change of scenary....he may just be in shock & need to clear his head.

    Take care, Angiexx
  • DON79
    DON79 Posts: 3,842 Forumite
    <<<<hugs>>>> to you hanstar, can't really add to the brilliant advice you have had so far but just to say we are all here if you need to chat and talk things over. take care xxxx
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  • fiveyearplan
    fiveyearplan Posts: 10,145 Forumite
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    I really feel for you Hanstar. Its not a nice environment to be in. All I can say is time is a healer and hopefully he will get better. Hang in there!!

    :j :j


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