We're aware that some users are experiencing technical issues which the team are working to resolve. See the Community Noticeboard for more info. Thank you for your patience.
📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

Friend doesnt want to go on holiday....

Options
245

Comments

  • maninthestreet
    maninthestreet Posts: 16,127 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    Any refund (is that likely at all?) would go back as a credit to your credit card account. Even if your ex-friend had the booking details, they would not be able to get a refund from the Travel Agent.
    "You were only supposed to blow the bl**dy doors off!!"
  • trevormax
    trevormax Posts: 947 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts Name Dropper
    depending on what type of holiday it was, I probably would have gone without the friend. Nothing wrong with being billy-no-mates for a week or two if its a nice sunny holiday.

    You might have met a nice young fella over there to share the room with you;)
  • dipsy
    dipsy Posts: 3,137 Forumite
    If she gets a note to say she is unfit to travel, will you get a full refund, as in on the basis that one person is unfit to travel could the whole holiday be cancelled/reimbursed for the full amount?

    I would personally tell her that you would like her to still go on the holiday, and that you are happy to let her have the paperwork to show she is indeed booked on the holiday for which she has paid - maybe she thinks you haven't booked the holiday?

    Also if you were to go on holiday and just cancel her proportion would you still get a refund for £200, (1/2 the £400 previously mentioned)

    you could explain that if she chooses not to go, then you will try to get someone to take her place and if you do then whatever they pay for the holiday you will pass onto her - less any change of name charges, but if you can't get anyone to fill her space then you can only give her any cancellation reimbursment for her share of the holiday - if any is due.
    2007 £1749
    2008 £291.99
    2009 JanMasscara £7.00 Feb megcabot books x 2 £20 XFactor tkts x 2 £58.00 (couldn't go though as they only phoned on day :-( ) foundation £7.99
    total so far for 09 £92.99
  • Hoopylass
    Hoopylass Posts: 910 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker Uniform Washer
    I really apprechiate all your comments about going alone, but I am not. I have cancelled the holiday.
    What I really need to know is:

    1. Will any court action she raises against me stand up?
    2. The holiday was cancelled today, should I send her the itenery?

    I am worried sick about all this.
    Total Debt
    Was £4145.81now £0.00
  • I would gladly give her a copy of the itinery I would also ask the provider to send you a copy of the the amounts paid and amounts refunded to you, from the refund, deduct your half and what is left over give to her, she shouldn't be entitled to a full refund of her half of the holiday anyway as you won't get the full amount back that you have jointly paid, you will only get a proportion and yes I agree that you shouldn't be out of pocket because she doesn't want to go, therefore deduct your half from what you have paid and give her what is left, if that turns out to be nothing then so be it
    Aug GC £63.23/£200, Total Savings £0
  • I cannot see any court action standing at all, if she paid you in cash and has no receipt from you to prove she gave you this money anyway, she is just desperately trying to find a way of getting her money back and threatening you
    Aug GC £63.23/£200, Total Savings £0
  • dipsy
    dipsy Posts: 3,137 Forumite
    So the holiday was £820 (410 each)?

    and refund given £400?

    so therefore you are £10 out of pocket?

    if thats the case I would tell her the holiday was booked for both of you and as "she" was the one that cancelled, leaving you no choice but to cancel the holiday as you were not prepared to travel alone, then She is £410 out of pocket and you are £10 out of pocket as it was not your choice not to travel.
    2007 £1749
    2008 £291.99
    2009 JanMasscara £7.00 Feb megcabot books x 2 £20 XFactor tkts x 2 £58.00 (couldn't go though as they only phoned on day :-( ) foundation £7.99
    total so far for 09 £92.99
  • Antispam
    Antispam Posts: 6,636 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    My advice is try and patch it with her, both of you will end up out of pocket, life's too short kiss and make up
  • How much money are they giving you back for cancelling the holiday? Is it the £400? As you paid £400 for your holiday you should keep this as it covers your costs.

    This means you haven’t lost out on much.

    £820 for the holiday

    £400 from your friend
    £400 back from the company for cancelling your holiday

    Leaves you £20 out of pocket

    Send her an invoice for the £20 ha ha ha ha ha
  • dipsy
    dipsy Posts: 3,137 Forumite
    as for court action it could work the other way, you could have said you had not received the money as she has no proof other than drawing cash from her bank account which means nothing, so she wont get anywhere with court action unless you have signed a receipt to say you have received the money for the holiday from her.
    2007 £1749
    2008 £291.99
    2009 JanMasscara £7.00 Feb megcabot books x 2 £20 XFactor tkts x 2 £58.00 (couldn't go though as they only phoned on day :-( ) foundation £7.99
    total so far for 09 £92.99
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 350.9K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.1K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 453.5K Spending & Discounts
  • 243.9K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 598.7K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 176.9K Life & Family
  • 257.1K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.1K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.6K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.