MSE Pregnancy Club XV

xmaslolly76

night night jillie have a good one.

The midlands is cheap for houses i have three story town house 3 beds 3 baths 4yrs old for £525 a month. OH and his family want us to move to rugby but we would never find a house like this for less than £850 a month and we cant afford that ive spoilt myself really taking this on will be really hard to downgrade now if we do move :-)

harley1

lil_miss_06 wrote: »

lol harley,,,,its ok,,i know you all forgot about me,,,;) jus kidding

maybe the guy heard from someone about your news!!!!!!
you know hows word gets about,,,,,,,,,

It's the 'other half' comment that got me - since I'm going to be a single mum:o. Not sure if he was digging, but he quickly followed it up with an email address ''in case I fancy a chat sometime''.

xxx

Nite Jillie xx

beebuzz168

Wow, this thread moves so quick!

Cheers for the advice ladies re my potential size at 20 weeks, I have had a friend say before that you don't start getting big until you want to, as in, if you have a reason to stay slimmer for, the baby won't show until you're ready. Does that sound like a bit of wishful thinking?!

Will speak to the bridal shop tomorrow and see what they suggest.

Isn't it strange how, yesterday, when I had no idea about the baby I felt completely normal, and today everything feels different. All truly surreal at the moment xx

lil_miss_06

harley1 wrote: »

It's the 'other half' comment that got me - since I'm going to be a single mum:o. Not sure if he was digging, but he quickly followed it up with an email address ''in case I fancy a chat sometime''.

xxx

Nite Jillie xx

hmmmmm,,,,,maybe more than a chat;)

xmaslolly76

beebuzz168 wrote: »

Isn't it strange how, yesterday, when I had no idea about the baby I felt completely normal, and today everything feels different. All truly surreal at the moment xx

Feels good though doesnt it i know i was fit to burst with excitement when i found out

xmaslolly76

Right i am crackered from driving most of the day i'm off to bed.
Goodnight all sleep well and keep those bellies blooming ;-) xx

harley1

lil_miss_06 wrote: »

hmmmmm,,,,,maybe more than a chat;)

Well, he hasn't seen the size of me lately.

In fact, I had some pretty insensitive comments in the office again today.
A new boy asked if I was expecting (bless him - at 37 weeks i didn't think it was in question) and the girls were saying how much fatter (yes, fatter, what a truely lovely way of putting it) I am than I was a year ago. Admittedly I've passed the 4.5 stone mark but even so, a bit unnecessary I thought.

I've mailed him to say that dad and I didn't work out and that I am really looking forward to being a single mum and spending a lot of time with my daughter so hopefully he was just being friendly cos reading it back now that i've sent it it sounds a bit blunt.

xxx

Evansangel

Right i actually feel as if my eyelids are going to fall off!
Night night everyone x

gymfiend

Oh 32b hope all goes well with your plan, sounds like it's really tough for you and your poor sis, will be keeping fingers crossed you get things sorted tomorrow

EA that conservatory is gorgeous!

Well I've cheered right up, after a bit of a strop, a bit (read...lot) of a cry, I spoke to my mum who has organised for me to see an obstetrics consultant first thing tomorrow for a scan, and to go over everything with me (my 12wk scan was pants) including the nuchal fold, thankfully he's a family friend who is a really really lovely guy and said he didn't want me to spend weeks worrying about the lack of heartbeat. God bless him. Now I can't wait to see the little wriggler again, though OH can't make it so will be taking my mum along for her first peek at her first grandchild Ahh so happy I could cry all over again!

lil_miss_06

harley1 wrote: »

Well, he hasn't seen the size of me lately.

In fact, I had some pretty insensitive comments in the office again today.
A new boy asked if I was expecting (bless him - at 37 weeks i didn't think it was in question) and the girls were saying how much fatter (yes, fatter, what a truely lovely way of putting it) I am than I was a year ago. Admittedly I've passed the 4.5 stone mark but even so, a bit unnecessary I thought.

I've mailed him to say that I am dad and I didn't work out and that I am really looking forward to being a single mum and spending a lot of time with my daughter so hopefully he was just being friendly cos reading it back now that i've sent it it sounds a bit blunt.

xxx

oh well,,he'll get over it lol,,,,

some people can be so stupid with their remarks,,
my best one was a stand in midwife a cpl weeks ago,,,ok im big anyway was big before i got pregnant but had lost quite alot of weight before i got pg,,anyway,i walk in at 35 weeks pg and the first thing she said is well your very over weight:eek:
so i said "yeah i know,,and its abit late for all that now with only 5 weeks to go so lets move on shall we" that was it i was off with her for the rest of the check up,,,,,
lol you should have seen her face,,anyway when i left i looked at my notes and she had put down,no concerns today,,,:rotfl:
silly woman