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lostinrates

piratefairy wrote: »

it's so not a date..
i'm still in love with someone else..
the guy knows that..
the guy is married..
and much much older than me..

NOT a date!

ETA - I'm fairly sure I'm not going to go anyway, possibly will cause too many problems :S

I love my male friends, some of who are casual exes, and who D knows and gets on with. I have to say though, since DH came on the scene I wouldn't go to the cinema alone with them...except those I know are very HAPPILY married or loved up. Why? Because regardless of how platonic I know it would be from my side you can never be entirely sure how it feels from there PoV, how it would sound if relayed by trouble makers to a new girlfriend or insecure wife/partner, or a plethora of other reasons. Similarly, though I hav no problem with DH spending time with his girlfriends (and he has loads) there are one or two specifically I would feel uncomfortable with had he gone for a film and meal with...how ever faithful i know HE is.

If its trouble you are seeking to avoid Dear Girl....I'd avoid this....or go as a group.

ladyfalco

it says No signatory available! Grr

piratefairy

I know, Lost..That's why I've been umming and arring for the last week or so, since he asked..He completely and utterly knows my situation and has been great from a moral support POV, but there is a part of me that is kinda concerned..which is why i'm fairly sure i'm going to listen to my head and not go, rather than listen to the friends who tell me to go as it will take my mind off sitting at home nursing my broken heart..
believe me, i know all too well that married men are trouble :S

ladyfalco - can you call them?

ladyfalco

Apprently im in an out of reach area (In between newcastle & Edinburgh!?) so royal mail now have them both.

piratefairy

oh ok so did it just mean deliuvered to royal mail?

daisybella

PF- I'm not sure what to say, I've been in that situation myself and it's such a head vs. heart thing. Follow your instinct x


Argh, I have to go back out in the cold as Mum wants me to meet her from work to do the food shop Wish me luck, I might freeze in to an ice cube.

Caroline73_2

piratefairy wrote: »

it's so not a date..
i'm still in love with someone else..
the guy knows that..
the guy is married..
and much much older than me..

NOT a date!

ETA - I'm fairly sure I'm not going to go anyway, possibly will cause too many problems :S

I wouldn't go. Older married man - screaming trouble, he must have an agenda. Suspicious, moi?

piratefairy

put on as many layers as you can, daisy! !

he just text to confirm times ;S i've been for dinner before with he and his work colleague, think i'll ask if they're both going? and if not, say that i don't think i'm comfortable with the situation..i've spent the last three yrs getting all manner of horrible **** from my ex's ex-wife..i'm not putting myself in a position where i have to go thru that again, however unlikely it could be..

ladyfalco

Lady on the phone said i shouldnt have received an email saying delivered but Royal mail will more than likely deliver tomorrow! Phew!!!

Thanks for the help

piratefairy

Arg. He says no, just me and him..

I'm so not going.