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  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Ames, it's fish and veg, how can it be bad for you? ;)

    BB, I'm not really bothered about dating anyone else at the moment, hence why I'm not freaking out too much about Mr Sunday. I'll wait to see what he says tonight.

    I've just asked him two questions really - a) is he getting to know me as a friend because he hopes it might be more eventually, or does he know now that he only wants friendship, and b) is he intending to date other people whilst getting to know me.

    I don't think I'm putting too much pressure on, I'm not asking for any promises - we might get to know each other and decide it's not what either of us want, but I just want to understand how he is feeling now (not second guess how he might feel in 6 months).

    I think considering his odd behaviour, I really need to know the answers to those questions to want to continue seeing him.

    Strangely, I found out earlier that a lovely DFW-er is friends with his cousin. Small world!!
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
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  • Snaggles wrote: »
    I'm not really bothered about dating anyone else at the moment,

    :( and here is me thinking you might be able to turn me :(
    :p I'm the only gay in this forum :p
    *Everybody wants prosthetic foreheads on their real heads*
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    no romance required.... i'd prefer to think of it as a black lace novella!

    Agadoo-doo-doo, Push Pineapple, Shake The Tree,

    Agadoo-doo-doo, Push Pineapple, Grind Coffee,

    To The Left, To The Right, Jump Up And Down And.... *ahem*

    Wrong Black Lace?








    Is it bad I had to look the lyrics up?
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
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  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    :wave:
    Evening..*in a croaky very sore throat voice*
    God I feel Shiite, been so busy today and have just sat down and its caught up with me!
    Anyway OH off out tonight so going to have a nice bath, chill and bed early. Have to take DD swimming to a party at moores valley and then to pop to see my mum before she jets off for her 3 week holiday *sigh, me jelous*

    Sounds like tonight could be fun maz!
    Snags hope you get things sorted one way or the other hun
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
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  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    Oh and to top it off, had a letter from town council to say that the half of my allotment that I haven't done anything to yet has to be cleared within a month or I will loose it...grrrrr
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • Burlesque_Babe
    Burlesque_Babe Posts: 17,547 Forumite
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    Snaggles wrote: »
    Ames, it's fish and veg, how can it be bad for you? ;)

    BB, I'm not really bothered about dating anyone else at the moment, hence why I'm not freaking out too much about Mr Sunday. I'll wait to see what he says tonight.
    good plan
    Snaggles wrote:

    I've just asked him two questions really - a) is he getting to know me as a friend because he hopes it might be more eventually, or does he know now that he only wants friendship, and b) is he intending to date other people whilst getting to know me.
    very fair questions and if it is 'a' I'd want some kind of timescale ..........just in case 'b' is really the plan ;)
    Snaggles wrote:
    I don't think I'm putting too much pressure on, I'm not asking for any promises - we might get to know each other and decide it's not what either of us want, but I just want to understand how he is feeling now (not second guess how he might feel in 6 months).
    you aren't pressuring him at all - in fact, you're being more than reasonable. The time has definitely come for the questions you've asked otherwise you could be 3 months down the line and he is still a 'friend' and you're still left waiting
    Snaggles wrote:
    I think considering his odd behaviour, I really need to know the answers to those questions to want to continue seeing him.
    definitely. It's only fair on you.
    Snaggles wrote:
    Strangely, I found out earlier that a lovely DFW-er is friends with his cousin. Small world!!

    any chance the DFW'er in question can pass on the DFW frying pan to his cousin to give him a smack oopside the heed? :rotfl:
    :D"Stay Wonky":D

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  • becky_rtw
    becky_rtw Posts: 8,393 Forumite
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    Evening *becky sits waiting for OH to arrive from Leeds* ;)

    Enjoy your bath Sally, never been to Lincoln want to go now and look at bookshops :D

    Want wine but am racing tomorrow so cant - never mind its worth it in the end!!!
  • becky_rtw wrote: »
    Evening *becky sits waiting for OH to arrive from Leeds* ;)

    He's still at my house ;)
    :p I'm the only gay in this forum :p
    *Everybody wants prosthetic foreheads on their real heads*
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    becky_rtw wrote: »
    Enjoy your bath Sally, never been to Lincoln want to go now and look at bookshops :D

    It's very nice, but Steep Hill is not kidding...
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    :( and here is me thinking you might be able to turn me :(

    Ahhh if only you meant it! :D
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
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