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  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Didn't mean to criticise - just thought it might give you a boost :D
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
    Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56
    Weightloss : 0/34lbs
  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Fire_Fox wrote: »
    I live in my gym kit and trainers, but I do scrub up pretty well - it's how I got Mr. Fire Fox! ;)

    :j Go girl! Like I said it's all about feeling comfortable and confident :D
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
    Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56
    Weightloss : 0/34lbs
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    Don't worry didn't take it as criticism just feeling a bit lost right now and my identity is a bit lost too.

    I met my ex on a night out in town, tbh not sure i want to do that again although i know its pretty common!
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    lilmissmup wrote: »
    Don't worry didn't take it as criticism just feeling a bit lost right now and my identity is a bit lost too.

    I met my ex on a night out in town, tbh not sure i want to do that again although i know its pretty common!

    That's how I met my ex-husband - but I didn't let it put me off nights out for ever :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
    Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56
    Weightloss : 0/34lbs
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    I meant the meeting men on a drunken night out not just nights out.

    My ex was only meant to be a one night meet if ya get my meaning....and well i don;t regret being with him but it would mean none of this exact pain.
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Yes - but isn't hindsight a wonderful thing :rolleyes: Even though it hurts right now you don't regret the good times do you? :D
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
    Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56
    Weightloss : 0/34lbs
  • doodledo_2
    doodledo_2 Posts: 4,676 Forumite
    Shoe Gal - thats really good advice. I am the same I hate the position I am in now but I dont regret the time with my ex. Made me who I am now and more importantly my little girl if that makes sense.

    No point regretting things you can't change just make steps to make a happy future :T
    Proud to be dealing with my debts - DFW No: 712

    03/09/09 - DEBT FREE AT LAST :D
    Racing Hypno to Save - £10/£5000
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    No i don't regret it at all, well the only regret i have is the birthday present i got him this year....:rolleyes: as nice a holiday as it was i will never be spending that amount of money or effort of keeping it all a secret for a man ever again whatever age they turn!
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • doodledo_2
    doodledo_2 Posts: 4,676 Forumite
    Lol I bet. Although I bet next time you're in love you would do it again. Its part of you and what you do when you care for someone, that will never change.
    Proud to be dealing with my debts - DFW No: 712

    03/09/09 - DEBT FREE AT LAST :D
    Racing Hypno to Save - £10/£5000
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    Maybe but would worry it might be the beginning of the end again :rolleyes:
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
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