lilmissmups moving on and hopefully upwards diary!

lilmissmup

Yep shes been on holiday for over a month but as she lives in housing with support workers they have reported her missing to the police as she didn't tell them she has gone away.

I haven't heard from her for a couple weeks though but assume she is ok.

Shes gonna end up homeless soon though if she isn't already and i just don't need her giving me extra stress right now

doodledo_2

God she is a nightmare and incredibly selfish, why didn't she just tell them grrrr.

She will end up homeless as authorities won't put up with it will they.

lilmissmup

She is very selfish your right, to be honest she deserves to be homeless, they have been trying to kick her out for ages.

She got about £9k when my Nan died earlier this year though so guess shes just spending all that :rolleyes:

doodledo_2

Yeah I bet she is. Try not to worry about her too much, I know she is your mum and all that but she is old enough to deal with the consequences of your actions. You just need to worry and take care of yourself right now.

lilmissmup

I am not worrying just don't need it. :rolleyes:

What i do need is to escape somewhere hot and sunny, possibly forever!

Lifes just so up in the air right now i hate it

doodledo_2

I have been tempted to do that and if it wasn't for my daughter I am 99% sure I wouldn't still be living in England.

lilmissmup

I worry about abandoning my cats so can't imagine what i would be feeling having a kid in my situation too.

I was in an ok mood last week, well mainly, dunno why i am on such a downer these last two days :rolleyes:

Fire_Fox

I think your ex keeping you guessing about visiting doesn't help, uncertainty is never easy especially when you are a bit fragile. We should do a 'single and in debt' getaway in 2010, the MSE way of course!

lilmissmup

Sounds good

Problem is he knows all about the issues with my mother so i really wish i had him around when she does her playing up acts, i want to ring him but i know i can't run to him anymore.

doodledo_2

Don't ring him. Ring a friend or offload on here, we are all here for you.

Ooooo loving the single getaway thing, could be great fun lol.

Although I am probably old enough to be your mother lol