lilmissmups moving on and hopefully upwards diary!

lilmissmup

I bloody well hope so, heard from both his mum and one of his second cousins today, both so lovely they set me off in floods of tears again Wish his family didn;t like me so much sometimes :rolleyes:

Fire_Fox

lilmissmup wrote: »

I am getting there Hayley but still have some really low days and moments, just got to try stop contact but just so hard after how long we were together. I can handle not seeing him, its been over 2 weeks since i saw him its just after a few days of no texts or speaking i get really lonely without him.

I am dreading that bit.

doodledo_2

It is possible to keep them in your life. I still socialise with my mother in law and his sister is my best mate :rotfl:

doodledo_2

It does feel really lonely sometimes and I find the evenings are the hardest.

I can always text you if it helps lol

lilmissmup

I can;t handle seeing his mum although she wants to see me, i am too emotional, i am a bloody cancerian as it is so always been emotional even when I am happy!

Firefox hun feel free to pm me if you need too once he goes, we could both do with the distraction!

You can text me too if you want! We can start a text club.

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I brought this book a few weeks ago, its really good, its funny and talks a lot of sense, not that I have been amazing at following it

doodledo_2

I'll PM me my mobile. You can text or ring whenever hun. I am that bit further down the road so I know what its like and how you are feeling.

We should sort out a meet up too and go for a drinkie.

Fire_Fox

Thank you for the offer lilmissmup! He's late home now and I am trying not to lose the plot.

lilmissmup

Defo! I promise not to sob all over you

lilmissmup

Fire_Fox wrote: »

Thank you for the offer lilmissmup! He's late home now and I am trying not to lose the plot.

Awww hun i really cant imagine how hard it is for you having him there, my ex left the day we split as i couldn't bear to have him in the house with me and not "be with me" although he then tried to say i made him leave, yes maybe but i did it for my emotional well being, do think maybe if he had stayed we could have talked about stuff again but i doubt it.

Keep chatting on here to me

doodledo_2

You can sob, we can find a dark corner in a pub somewhere lol.

Firefox - whats happened, are you in a similar situation to us? Hope you're ok chick x