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lilmissmups moving on and hopefully upwards diary!

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  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
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    Hi

    What a !!!!!! :mad::mad:

    You are doing really well, don't let him get to you :D
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
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  • xHayles84x
    xHayles84x Posts: 585 Forumite
    What a complete sod chick - why do men do things like that? :mad: He's probably just telling porkys!

    Yay for internet :j How's the new place? Is it a house or a flat?
    The very best things in life ... are free! :D

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  • lilmissmup wrote: »
    Was still staying strong until last night when had a phone call with him that made me sob for ages. He stupidly told me he had been asked out already by girls on facebook. :rolleyes: Thanks, i needed to know that.

    Then he tried to backtrack saying he was just exgarating. Sod. Apparantly he won't date for ages. Yeah right.

    Daft, daft bloke. :rolleyes: You are doing really well; don't let this get you down.
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    Seeing him tonight to get some more monies. Coming round to mine, not sure how I feel about that.

    I had to go into our old house yesterday, can't stand going back there now, too many memories.

    Just want to feel happy already. Keep having weird dreams bout him :rolleyes:
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • stacy
    stacy Posts: 660 Forumite
    Hey Lilmiss, i just came back from a 2 week hol today at 3am :rolleyes: lol caught up with the rest of your diary and you are doing REALLY well and you can tell you were the hard worker in this relationship, i think this was a good move for you. I am shocked though in a few months you have paid off your braces......in a few months my treatment will be over and i have to find over 2grand to pay the final payment, not sure how that will work out. Cant wait to be out of debt. keep us posted and hope you are well brace bud :D x
    Due to budget cuts the light at the end of the tunnel will be switched off.
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  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    All I can say is 'grit your teeth and get through it' - you deserve so much better :D
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
    Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56
    Weightloss : 0/34lbs
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    Well survived the weekend and the Friday night seeing him.

    He said some stupid things again. I know i shouldn't have but the chat got a bit "heated" and he ended up saying if i got pregnant now by him then he would probably would get back with me......:rolleyes:

    And also that he would get back with me if he wanted too, he wouldn't not out of stubborness.

    Not that we are going too or am I going to have a baby with him, or do anything silly.

    Saturday I went to London with my friend to a fundraiser party for Tibet as its a cause she is really into and yesterday I saw some family and built flat pack furniture with my Dad.

    Got my new telly Saturday, 32in from Argos for £290ish quid, just need to set it up tonight now.

    He went out Saturday night with a friend and got drunk and spent all yesterday in bed apparantly. I know he didnt do anything with anyone though as he went home bout 10ish as i was having a bit of a "clingy" weekend this weekend so was texting and calling a bit, think seeing him Friday and what he said messed with my head again. :o

    Keep feeling okish then something hurts me. Also well its that special time right now so trying to blame my hormones.
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    Tried to edit last post but my work seems to dislike this site, should have internet and sky back tomorrow, can't wait as its when I am bored i end up texting and calling him.

    Realised i need some more friends though, don't have enough to distract me....
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • wendz86
    wendz86 Posts: 7,171 Forumite
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    That isn't fair of him to say what he has been. Whatever you do don't get back together because he has changed his mind. Make sure he works at it and it is what you want, if it does happen that is.

    Is there something you could maybe take up doing to keep you occupied, some kind of hobby or something?
  • benbenandme
    benbenandme Posts: 12,347 Forumite
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    His commentes re. girls on f/b asking him on a date smack of someone who wants you to think he's popular / in demand when actually he's missing you like crazy. You are doing really really well and I think once you're settled in your new place you'll realise this is the best thing you've ever done, keep going hun ;):D
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