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The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

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  • TinyPablo
    TinyPablo Posts: 292 Forumite
    I'm so sorry Toniq, take care of yourself, x
  • liloandstitch
    liloandstitch Posts: 1,333 Forumite
    Just popped in before I went - I am so sorry, Toni take care of yourself XXXXXXXXXXX
    Live on £4000 a year again for 2011
  • Murray
    Murray Posts: 622 Forumite
    Oh Toni, so sorry to hear that, do take good care of yourself. It really is so unfair xx


    Lilo, I'm pleased it went well with Zita. Did you get a bit starstruck? I think I would! Have a lovely holiday.
  • nichart20
    nichart20 Posts: 957 Forumite
    Toniq I am so so sorry take care of yourself, so unfair x x x x x ((hugs))

    Lilo glad things went well with zita it all sounds very positive, she certainly knows her stuff x x

    Chickpea & lilo have lovely holidays x x
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    Are you sure it's over Toni? (((Hugs))):(
  • toniq
    toniq Posts: 29,340 Forumite
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    Hi ladies, been at hospital today, I'm awaiting results from a Beta, they said i'd prob get a call by 5pm..........no call.

    I hada lil bit of light pink blood when i wiped yesterday evening a few times and a cramp tummy ache for a few hours in the night, because it's stinging down below, consultant thinks it might be a bladder infection or uti.

    I truthfully don't feel the same. It feels different for me x Hope everyone is ok xx
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  • sarahs999
    sarahs999 Posts: 3,751 Forumite
    Hugs Toni. How utterly !!!!! of them not to call.
  • nottslass_2
    nottslass_2 Posts: 1,765 Forumite
    Toni,

    So sorry.

    After My failed cycle a good friend sent me this poem and it really summed up the reality of IVF.


    Tons of needles
    Bruises galore
    Can I take much more ?
    Scattered hopes
    And shattered dreams
    Of a baby I have never seen
    Will this ever end ?
    Stim cycle, down cycle
    Cancelled cycle, failed cycle
    Please God, give me strength
    As the tears roll down my face
    And sting my skin
    Only to know I have to
    Do this all over again..........



    Thinking of you XXX
  • jujugaboo
    jujugaboo Posts: 4,246 Forumite
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    Oh god nott that poem just made cry.

    Hugs and hugs Toni. X
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  • epsilondraconis
    epsilondraconis Posts: 1,758 Forumite
    So sorry to hear the news Toniq. I just wish there was something I could say or do that would help. Our thoughts are with you both.
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