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Trying For a Baby III

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  • MadMac wrote: »
    So that definitely makes me the old woman on the thread! But where there's life, there's hope...

    That's such a good attitude MadMac :beer: I hope your OH can get his meds sorted soon, I don't have any personal experience with prozac but plenty of people close to me have and I know its finding the right dose/drug and then its a charm :)
    polkadot wrote: »
    I'm getting into all the BFP's now...and I have to say it's very helpful :D Now I'm more interested in lildevil's results than mine.
    Gill I'm 29 (at least until next Thusday ;) ) and DF has just turned 29. I have one DS already (he's 3 now) but we are ttc our first together. Alot have suggested it's "his fault" but he's "been pg" before (she terminated) and we had an m/c in March...so I think it's just timing.
    Bitzer sorry if you said before, are you going away on holiday or are you having a garden vacation?
    mishka I hope she's at least not punishing you too much with the pain.Loads of hot water bottles.

    Haha! Its kinda both really - we're going camping in the highlands and island of Scotland for 10 days. Only on a "proper" campsite for a few days then we're walking to wildcamp somewhere pretty and isolated :) The dog's going to hate it, I swear he'd report me to the RSPCA if he could, he absolutely detests camping! He's a duvet-dog and thinks he melts in the rain and has to be carried over streams etc :o But its tough luck for him, he'll sulk for a few days then get into it when he realises there's rabbits everywhere... :p
    Never argue with an idiot, he just brings you down to his level and beats you with experience.
  • emmzy
    emmzy Posts: 428 Forumite
    Afternoon All, Hows everyone?

    Im having a sh*tty time OH is drinking again after being off it for months he started to see a counciller 2 weeks ago about his abuse and something said at his appointment on Monday has set him off and no one will listen to me! I tried calling his AA worker and shes out no one seemed to know when she would be back, I called his probation worker and shes on holiday and the people at the councilling wont even speak to me because of confidentiality. Im at a loss here as to what Im supposed to do next. Hes away to work and I hid his bank card this morning (Im allowed to do that for his own good we agreed on it months ago to stop him being tempted) but now hes annoyed that he doesnt get any lunch and fell out with me GRRR men are so infuriating sometimes!! I know hes hurting but I just wanna bang his head against a wall and make him see that getting drunk isnt going to fix it and if he tells me "Im fine" one more time I think I might :mad:

    So who complained about their OH driving them mental im in the same boat!

    Anyway yeah... Im 23 and OH is 24 were getting married in Feb and neither of us have kiddies so were trying for our first ever YeY(If he doesnt give all his tadpoles alchohol poisioning!) and we have been trying for 18 months :(

    Sorry for the long post I just needed to rant no one else seems to be listening to me! lol
  • emmzy
    emmzy Posts: 428 Forumite
    I just realised, you must all think Im a miserable !!!!!! lol Every post Iv made in about the last week has been depressing! Im actually very cheery just that when one problem happens about 30 more follows it lol its hard work! So yeah... Smile :D:D
  • nunnygirl
    nunnygirl Posts: 2,206 Forumite
    Don't think you're miserable at all emmzy, life's a pain sometimes
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  • **confuzzled**
    **confuzzled** Posts: 4,228 Forumite
    Oh Emmzy thats rubbish. I hope its just a blip and your OH see sense soon!
    And we know you're not a miserable cow:p I'm amazed at how cheery you are considering you have all that to deal with:eek:
    And heres little old me whinging about DH not wanting to get down to business:o

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    1.11.09 - debt = £45k:eek:
    [STRIKE]Car Loan = £0[/STRIKE] CCCS Total = £30,246.88 Total Debt Paid off - 32.78%
    DFD [STRIKE]Nov[/STRIKE][STRIKE]Sept[/STRIKE]Aug 2018:o Only 75 payments to go:)
  • emmzy
    emmzy Posts: 428 Forumite
    lol I feel like a miserable cow sometimes I hate annoying other people with my problems I wouldnt talk to people in RL about this stuff! suprisingly OH still wants to " get down to buisness" even though I tell him its always terrible when hes drunk lol. Someone come on with a new BFP and cheer me up!! lol
  • MadMac_2
    MadMac_2 Posts: 1,173 Forumite
    Oh Emmzy, you are very welcome to come and rant on here, what else are we for?!

    Your OH really needs your support, he hopefully is just having a blip and you can knock some sense into him (not literally against the wall kind of stuff!) along with his AA support, when you can get hold of them! Oh, if it isn't one thing, it's another...

    I'm not even going to start on my OH, I would never ever stop!

    Big hug hun, x
  • emmzy
    emmzy Posts: 428 Forumite
    The wall bit sounded fun madmac! lol He knows Ill support him but if he tried telling me instead of going to the pub first then coming back a state then telling me it would be a lot easier!! Anyway I decided the only cure for me is shopping .. Theres nothing to cheer you up like spending money you probably shouldnt lol back later :D
  • Hello ladies! Finally, an update - AF arrived this morning 8 days late so the merrygoround can start again. Am disappointed but I knew it was coming really and just needed the confirmation IYKWIM?

    However, what I am hoping is that AF arriving means that annie and I were only ever destined to have one BFP between us and so she might have it - am keepig things crossed for you hon!!!!!

    Some rough times going on at the mo by the sounds of things, big hugs to all who need them

    JM xxxxx
    Proud to be dealing with my debts :T DFW Nerd: 241
  • **confuzzled**
    **confuzzled** Posts: 4,228 Forumite
    Testing:D
    Sat 4th - [STRIKE]Becs[/STRIKE], Catw0man BFP.gif
    Thu 9th - [STRIKE]Musogirl295, Kmckee, cedrickerry[/STRIKE]
    Sat 11th - [STRIKE]Madmac[/STRIKE], RedstarArnie
    Sun 12th - Annie, Special0ffer
    Mon 13th - Emmzy
    Sat 18th - Tinksy, LilDevil,[STRIKE] Just married[/STRIKE]
    Fri 24th - Natalie6999
    Fri 31st - Confuzzled

    4th August - nunnygirl

    Nikabella & Kindofagilr BFP.gif
    Congrats on your bfps Catw0man, Nikabella & Kindofagilr :T:T
    1.11.09 - debt = £45k:eek:
    [STRIKE]Car Loan = £0[/STRIKE] CCCS Total = £30,246.88 Total Debt Paid off - 32.78%
    DFD [STRIKE]Nov[/STRIKE][STRIKE]Sept[/STRIKE]Aug 2018:o Only 75 payments to go:)
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