Trying For a Baby III

feelinggood_2

EA - I had a bit of spotting with DS at 13 weeks. The worry upset me so much, I think the adrenaline knocked all my symptoms out till I had a scan. If you are stressed/worried about the baby, that might cause the loss of symptoms. Fingers crossed for you.

feelinggood_2

I'm still SS, had some cramping today, wondering if AF is going to make an appearance. Its been about 15 months since my last one, so if it is, I hope it isn't a bad one. Sickness still comes and goes, and the last time I was this exhausted, I was pregnant. Got some cheapies coming tomorrow, will definitely test as soon as they arrive.

nunnygirl

for you feelie.

Evansangel

Hi all Thanks for your kind words.
Going to call the doctors 2mrw morning for an emergancy appointment. Dont know what to say to the receptionists though, as they wont deem my problem as an emergancy and wont give me an appointment.
They are right cows lol.

And i know it sounds bad, but i may need to lie just to get in to see my doctor!

Had a cry at OH's parents earlier, OH's mum had 3 miscarriages before she had OH and one mc was while she was carrying him, she lost his twin.
She was so understanding and told me to either see the doctor or get another private scan and they'll take us up to the scanning centre.
Feel a little better, just going to try and keep positive and relax

OH is watching topgear at the moment, i dont admit it to him, but it is quite funny He thinks that when i 'let' him watch it im being super kind, so he does nice stuff for me

kmckee999

Oh (((hugs))) EA im sure everythin is fine, prayin thats its an off day too and u feel betta soon, try n stay calm sweetie

Natalie i googled agnus castus recently as i was gonna try n see if it kick started my periods, seem to have good results from what i read but iv spoke to my gp on friday and he advised me to hold off until app with gynae so it didnt cloud any investigation! hopefully should hear this week.

Unfortunately DH results wern't good his gp wouldnt say over the phone what they were and made an app for him tomorrow so im guessin his count as low again which is just what we [EMAIL="f@#kin"]f@#kin[/EMAIL] need :mad: :mad:

Hope ur feelin less oinky soon smartie

polkadot

EA I have taken to telling receptionists off when they ask why I need to see the doctor. There is such a thing as patient confidentiality and they are receeptionists-not doctors. There is no way I can benefit from telling them what ails me. When I had the m/c they refused to let me see the doctor for a 5minute appointment because "as I started bleeding on the sunday, it was too late anyway" I had complications and had a fit and then fainted in the waiting room .The surgery was investigated by my local pct and got into alot of trouble for it.
I'm not trying to scare you because as has been said, baby might be giving you a day off...but if you would feel more comfortable seeing the doctor then that is what you should do...you need to stand your ground hun...

MadMac_2

Kmckee and EA - well, I'll be thinking of both of you tomorrow and hope you both get reassured in different ways, xx :grouphug::grouphug:

Have finally heard from OH and feel so much better for it :j

Edit: totally back what Polkadot says - I NEVER tell them why I'm ringing, it's none of their business! I just say I wouldn't be calling if I didn't really, really need to see a doctor.

Evansangel

In my old doctors they refused to give you appointments if you didn't tell them the problem, and when i was 14 i went in for an appointment as my wrists were really hurting all the time and the receptionist asked what the problem was, when i told her she said "you dont need an appoinment, my daughter gets that when she's on her period, its probably just that"

Being 14 and very shy i accepted it and left. But i dont now days, i argue my point.

I think they want a reason to see if its important enough for an emergancy slot.
Should i just say "its private"

x

smartie12

kmckee999 wrote: »

Oh (((hugs))) EA im sure everythin is fine, prayin thats its an off day too and u feel betta soon, try n stay calm sweetie

Natalie i googled agnus castus recently as i was gonna try n see if it kick started my periods, seem to have good results from what i read but iv spoke to my gp on friday and he advised me to hold off until app with gynae so it didnt cloud any investigation! hopefully should hear this week.

Unfortunately DH results wern't good his gp wouldnt say over the phone what they were and made an app for him tomorrow so im guessin his count as low again which is just what we f@#kin need :mad: :mad:

Hope ur feelin less oinky soon smartie

I'm going to my pigpen soon after I've had my second lot of hamiflu!!;):D

I hope DH's results aren't as bad you think.

EA - tell them you HAVE to see a doctor and its personal!

Madmac - glad you've heard from OH

Something else I was going to say but can't remember:o

Hogs and kisses to everyonex

redstararnie76

EA - definitely tell them that it's private, but urgent.
I know it's easy to say, but do try not to worry - when I was first pregnant with my daughter the symptoms seemed to come and go quite regularly. On some days I felt absolutely fine - others I felt really ill, there seemed to be no rhyme or reason to it.