Trying For a Baby III

becs

Ah Annie, life can be so cruel. Try and stay positive and look forward to next month. \i know it's a particually fertile thread here at the mo and that is hard to be around when you hit your lows but remember the rest of us remaining are going through the same thing and are here to support you. If you need to let of steam or have a shoulder to cry on and can't face the thread just yet please feel free to pm me.Huge hugs to you in the meantime Annie and take care.

MadMac_2

Annie, I can only second what becs says. Take some time out if you feel the need and we certainly understand why, but when you come back we'll welcome you with open arms... well, I will as I'm bound to still be here!

I agree that the more fertile posts stand out on here at the moment, but there's plenty more struggling ones underneath all of that and you can rant, cry and moan on here without upsetting your OH, I call that a real blessing!

Plus, where else could you get so many commiserations about AF arriving? Well, I hope that throwaway comment at least made you smile :D:D

Huge hug hun, sorry about the cramps but your body has held on to that lining too well and now doesn't really want to let go. Hopefully in a few days you'll feel more normal, xx

smartie12

(((hugs))) for annie

I dreamt last night I had a baby boy called Walter

I think he was about 9 days old and I hadn't registered the birth.... at least I had chance to change his name if the dream carried on!!!:rotfl:


Hmmmm..... mind you.... Walter... kinda different:think:

*adds it to list of baby names*

Feeling quite crap this morning... had to have sugar in my tea to give a boost (I don't take sugar in my tea)

Got to go food shopping by foot as theres no food in house and DH is working:mad: BUT I'm out for lunch with DS and very pg friend:j

**confuzzled**

Morning all and ((((Hugs)))) for annie:(

And congrats to EA.....bet you were legging it out to the loo straight after you got the pic:rotfl::rotfl:

Smartie..Walter is definitely different:D it reminds me of an evil character from a kids tv programme or something?!!? Don't know why though:rolleyes::D

Rght well no news from me except all 'symptoms' I was having have stopped so am 90% sure that it was my mind playing tricks:mad::rolleyes:
So just gotta wait for AF then start lookin forward to the next cycle:D
Its weird though, I'm not as distraught as I thought I would be!!!!
Maybe its because realising now is better than a BFN next week:rolleyes:

Stick babydust to everyone xxxxxx

kencokenco

Well ladies after my post this morning about the cramps in my stomach. I went back to bed for a few hours and now im up and still getting the cramps, I also have slight pinky blood when I wipe myself, so im hoping all is ok.

I phoned my doctor who said to rest for today and see how things go over the next few hours. If the blood becomes more than just pinky streaks when I wipe and become heavy I should phone back. (great that really comofrts me). Untill then I sit and wait. He said rest and not to worry.

How can I not worry with all the hard work gettig hear, my head is thinking allsorts now. oh I hate when you know more medical terms and symptoms than the doctors do themselves.

Im scared to go for a wee in case it becomes heavier and more.

Arrggh Im so angry with myself, im just hoping all is ok,. Sorry to rant ladies but im feeling a little p*****off with myself if anything happens. I know I shouldn't think like that, but with all the problems we have had already I just dont know anymore.

Sorry to rant, I will go now and hope all is ok.

**confuzzled**

Oh Kenco you poor thing ((((hugs))))
I don't know what to say tbh:o Can you go for a lie down and just hope you end up having nap??? Anything really that forces you to relax a little?!?!?!

It could be spotting and apparently thats normal in early pg
The cramps could be from your uterus stretching and making room for everything thats going on down there;)

HTH xxxxx

Leopardlady

Oh Kenco, you really shouldn'tbeat yourself up, try and find a good film to watch and rest on the sofa today, with a really good film taking your mind off things. You body may just be settling in to being pg. But on a slightly less happy note if it does not stick it is NOT YOUR FAULT!! There is nothing any of us can do if it is not meant to be. Please feel free to PM me as I know how hard it is to cope with the cramping at this stage. My doc just said rest and try and keep sain!

Please look after yourself and try your hardest to not worry, (maybe turn us off and get that film on )

Take care

Leopardlady

Good morning ladies, well AF has eased today, so that is good. I went to the library last night and got Toni Welshers Take Control book, so had a good read through most of it last night, it just seems to say a lot of what i already know from being on here

Well OH seems vaguely interested in me temping, so having a look on e-bay today as i have some money in paypal from Quidco, so all free really! Very MSE

It is tough on here some days, i am so happy for EA but so worried for Kenco, and want to give a huge hug to Madmac, why can't life be fair and straightforward sometimes???

Oh well very sticky sticky baby dust to all

LilDevil

Fingers crossed for you kenco

polkadot

It's so busy today. I really don't know what to say to everyone. So much happy and scary.
I have had a wonderful day so far, my DS woke me up this morning with a book wanting to read me a "your happy birthday book story" and I got tea in bed. I've had phone calls all morning from friends for the first time since moving to the UK. Made me take stock a bit because I thought "well it's my 30th birthday and at least I have my one bub...so even though he's three already, he's the best 30th birthday present I could ask for".

On the ttc side of things...I started the clomid yesterday and was SO nauseous. It's eased some today so thats a good thing...I've been cleaning and washing to keep the cramps out of my head and a pg friend called this morning and asked if she could pop by for tea later today. A really nice surprise because of all the friends I have, despite that I love her lots...she was the last person I was expecting to see today so it was really nice. Looking forward to her visit.

So on that note, I'll be making a move for now-but I'll check back in with you all later this evening.