Trying For a Baby III

Natalie6999

AF arrived yesterday, left me totally devastated as I really felt that I was going to get my BFP.

I just feel that my body is failing me, every month everything builds up towards ov'ing & everything seems to revolve around bd'ing at the right time, then for the next two weeks every tiniest symptom seems to mean everything pointing to a BFP.

I just don't know how much longer I can carry on like this, sooner or later I am going to have to make the decision to give up on TTC.

~BamNaggy~

Morning alllllll

Hope you're all feeling good...or at least okay and on the way. :heart2:

Hugs to those that have had BFN or pesky AF is back in town. We will get there ladies...dig deep.

Skintscotslass: I take folic acid and a mulit-vit. I think your pregna-care thingys from Boots are very similar. GD with ttc. :T

Twinkle: Sorry you're not very well. Take this time to chill and pamper yourself...there are a lot of bugs going around at the moment. Try and think on the bright side, your immune system will get on top of it and kick its a$$. x x

I have to blast the house tidy today ...but I will do it with such vigour to use up lots of calories. It is weigh in on Thursday. I have my fingers crossed for a two pound loss this week. I have been quite an :Ain the food and exercise stakes this week.

I took my thirteen month old nephew out for the day yesterday. It is the first time I have had him for such a long time and as well as it been lovely to be with him, it gave me a refresher of what it is like being "tied" to another human for a full day.
The good points: big smiles and cuddles (priceless), old ladies cooing at the pushchair in the street, reading books/playing with toys/playing peek-a-boo, watching his face as he tastes new flavours, shopping for a toy and a new outfit for him, a pushchair walk in the sunshine with little one pointing and laughing at all the cars and dogs that passed.
The not so good points: having to wait until he fell asleep so I could go for a number two, having to eat my dinner cold as he was feeding first, picking up rice,peas and chicken from the floor, the table...out of my hair and not been able to watch Trisha in peace.:rotfl:
Already having a child (of 18) it made me ask myself...is ttc what I really want as I approach the age of 40. And for all the things that are mildy inconvenient and earth shatteringly tiring...it is so worth it. :grinheart

Well Stardrops and the hoover are calling me. I hope you all have a scrummy, yummy day.

Lots of love Bam x x

~BamNaggy~

p.s. notmyusual - get a test and pee on that stick. Until you know where you stand you won't be able to sort out how you feel. When you know the results you can go from there.

Bam x

**confuzzled**

~BamNaggy~ wrote: »

Not much to report on my front, BD still not possible as DP's back is still tres sore. He is hunched over and wittering about it all the time, so he has a new nickname - Steptoe.:)

Steptoe?! :rotfl:Love it:rotfl::rotfl:

katyj10 wrote: »

Some people love testing too much and too early. Some are scared to test in fear of a bfn :rolleyes: so it's just something we use to see who is due to test and when. Then if / when AF arrives, it all starts again!

Is that a dig at me Missy?!:p:rotfl: SSL to gt to grips with the abbreviations go to th 1st page and there should be alink to a site wth them all on:D Plus there one thats not on their that one of your very own girls made up(Can't remember who though or the'd get a special mention;))....TLP = Tiny Little Positive

notttmyusualname wrote: »

me n oh havent exactly been trying its more a case of not being careful and then agreeing it wouldnt be the worst thing to happen - i know im stupid etc etc
im now a couple of days late and honestly dont know whether to go buy a test or not really - ive googled some symptoms and well i could be based on the stuff i found

we both want children but now im faced with the possibility of it im not even sure what im feeling. not even sure if i should post in here as i know everyone in here wants a bfp so badly (am a secret reader of the forum)

i guess i just want someone to tell me to get my butt into gear buy a test pee on a stick and then return....

oh yeah i had a question - spotting??? how much is classed as spotting??

In that case, BUY A FLIPPIN' TEST:p Seriously, it'ss the only way you'll know for definite. Any kind of blood is classed as spotting as far as I'm aware, but then again spotting can also be a sign of the start of your AF, this is what I had this month, 2days of spotting then full blown AF!
But deffo buy a test and put your mind at rest(stress can stop AF arriving too), then whatever the result, please think seriously about if you want kids or not and talk to your OH about it. It is a scary prospect but if you want kids then you'll see past the scariness and how much joy they can bring!!!
Anyway, again BUY A TEST and I hope you get the result you want.

Morning all, looks like AF is going already:j So should be able to start bding from tomorrow:j Spoke to DH about ttc again last night and it turns out this malarky is affecting him as much as it is me, only diff is he keeps schtum where I'll wuitehappily moan away:rolleyes: He's also worried that he's firing blanks(coz his bro is, I don't get the logic either!)so now my next mission is to get him to go/talk to his docs about it..not gonn abe easy but it'll either prove him wrong and put his mind at rest or prove him rgiht and wecan crack on and do something about it! Either way I think it's a step in the right direction:)

Hope alls well with everyone and stickybabydust to everyone who wants it:D
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

**confuzzled**

Testing List
[STRIKE]Sun 11th Oct - Natalie6999[/STRIKE]
Fri 16th Oct - suzyp
Sat 17th Oct - Bitzer, Justmarried
Sun 18th Oct - moneyangel22
Wed 21st Oct - Penny
Sun 25th Oct - GTS
Sat 31st Oct - BamNaggy, MsBella, Elliebobs
Fri 6th Nov - Nichart

~BamNaggy~

Here is an interesting link Confuzzled:http://www.familyresource.com/pregnancy/infertility/male-infertility-low-mobility-hereditary

Might answer a few of your OH questions.

**confuzzled**

Thanks Bam, very interesting:) Will show him the article and try and get him to go to his docs, although he'll try and wriggle out of it!:rolleyes: It seems its ok for women to go to the docs and spread their legs but get a man so get his johnson out and cough is damn near impossible!:rotfl::rotfl:

Courgette

**confuzzled** wrote: »

It seems its ok for women to go to the docs and spread their legs but get a man so get his johnson out and cough is damn near impossible!:rotfl::rotfl:

:eek::eek::eek: :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

bitzer_maloney

:rotfl: at confuzzled! So true! Though if we're not successful soonish, I'll be taking OH to the gp with me and he'll just have to get over it! :rolleyes:

Anywho, CD22 here (8DPO) boobs killing like billy-o still. Very annoyed as I've got a busy and active day at work and can't be seen holding my boobs still going down the stairs like 14yr old...what will people say?!

Had a horrific day yesterday managed to delete an important folder from one of our work computers and don't know how. Here is the computer in question:



Yes, an Acorn. From 1994. No wonder I'm a bit lost with it, I was just starting secondary school when that was released and installed here *sigh* :rolleyes:
Boss says I can get a new system though Think me pointing out how old it was relative to my education helped somewhat. I swear he still thinks it 1998 sometimes...

stickybabydust ladies! xx

**confuzzled**

Courgette wrote: »

:eek::eek::eek: :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

bitzer_maloney wrote: »

:rotfl: at confuzzled! So true! Though if we're not successful soonish, I'll be taking OH to the gp with me and he'll just have to get over it! :rolleyes:

Anywho, CD22 here (8DPO) boobs killing like billy-o still. Very annoyed as I've got a busy and active day at work and can't be seen holding my boobs still going down the stairs like 14yr old...what will people say?!

Had a horrific day yesterday managed to delete an important folder from one of our work computers and don't know how.

stickybabydust ladies! xx

Glad you both like my little rant:p:rotfl:Thought it was a bit early for that kind of talk after I posted but obviously not:eek::rotfl:
Bitzer OMG my PRIMARY(:eek:) school had those!! Everyone was impressed coz it was really high-tech for a small school like ours! I was in Yr6 when we got them soooooo *counts on fingers* yeah 1994 it would've been!!!!
You definitely can't be blamed for what you do on a relic like that!!!
DH has got 4 months before I frog march him to the docs!! Poor $od won't know whats hit him!!!!:p:rotfl: