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Trying For a Baby III

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  • Can you please put me on the testing list for 11th October?

    Thanks
  • jcr16
    jcr16 Posts: 4,185 Forumite
    well i was hoping to be able to post to say were trying for a baby. but sadly no. i feel happy and sad at same time if possible.

    Both hubby and i really want another child. but we've decied to wait a year for a number of reason's. although if it happened then of course we would be happy.

    it feels so nice to write this and tell someone. as apart from my hubby i don't have anyone who i could sit down and say were trying for a baby, without getting negative comments. everyone always seems to be so negative. so were not gonna tell anyone. we have even said we don't wanna tell anyone till i'm about 5 month's.

    if this years anything to go by , then the time will fly by i'm sure.
  • Please add me to the testing list for 18th October...it WILL be a BFP and a lovely birthday pressie a few days early!! x
  • Anyway, being optimistic this month and adding myself to the testing list even though I have a while to go (on CD7) AF due around 25th so will hope to test on 30th Oct. Can I be added to the list please Confuzzled?
    Done:D..........
    Can you please put me on the testing list for 11th October?
    .........and Done:D
    jcr16 wrote: »
    well i was hoping to be able to post to say were trying for a baby. but sadly no. i feel happy and sad at same time if possible.

    Both hubby and i really want another child. but we've decided to wait a year for a number of reason's. although if it happened then of course we would be happy.

    it feels so nice to write this and tell someone. as apart from my hubby i don't have anyone who i could sit down and say were trying for a baby, without getting negative comments. everyone always seems to be so negative. so were not gonna tell anyone. we have even said we don't wanna tell anyone till i'm about 5 month's.

    if this years anything to go by , then the time will fly by i'm sure.
    jcr you're right, time will fly by:) Sounds like you're fine with your decision but just in case you need them ((((HUGS))));):) xx


    Testing List
    [STRIKE]Sun 4th Oct - Maddie[/STRIKE]
    Tues 6th Oct - Nichart
    [STRIKE]Thu 8th Oct - shazrobo[/STRIKE]
    Sun 11th Oct - Confuzzled, [STRIKE]Smartie, Ellibobs[/STRIKE], Natalie6999
    Fri 16th Oct - suzyp
    Sat 17th Oct - Bitzer, Justmarried
    Wed 21st Oct - Penny
    Sun 25th Oct - GTS

    Still no AF for me!Eek!
    1.11.09 - debt = £45k:eek:
    [STRIKE]Car Loan = £0[/STRIKE] CCCS Total = £30,246.88 Total Debt Paid off - 32.78%
    DFD [STRIKE]Nov[/STRIKE][STRIKE]Sept[/STRIKE]Aug 2018:o Only 75 payments to go:)
  • jcr16
    jcr16 Posts: 4,185 Forumite
    yes i am fine with our choice because the reason we have put it back are for happy reasons. but i also do feel sad in a way due to being so broody. we had always planned on tryng for another before our son turned 1 but it never happened. it took us a year to fall for first which sadly we lost, then 3 months to fall again, then a month to fall and with our last child it took a year again. so even tho we arent' planning on trying till next sep. i do know relistally i could take up to a year to fall. so i'm sure in that time i'll be here alot. as it so nice to find a thread where all the mums are feeling the same. and no one is gonna be negative about your choice to have a baby. Wonderful. i do get down so all the negative comments you get.

    but time does fly
  • 1more?
    1more? Posts: 352 Forumite
    hi all
    as it says im back
    sorry ive not read back ive been hiding away from ttc since my m/c back in early september
    its day 2 of my af today im glad to see it in a way so that we can start trying again
    hugs to those who need them & congrats to any bfp ive missed while being in hiding
    xx
  • Courgette
    Courgette Posts: 3,242 Forumite
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    Morning all,

    Still off sick and going even stircrazier if that's both a word and possible. Have marked some year 11 exams this morning, managed about 2/3rds before the dizziness struck again so I'm trying to look on the positive side especially as it's still quite early. Truth is, I'm ever so fed up now and actually don't think I'm gonna be well enough tomorrow. Will go in and see but teaching just isn't a job you can give less than 100% to. We'll see.

    Confuzzled, I'm getting really excited for you now. I know I shouldn't but you're a little way overdue now. Do you really reckon you'll hang on til Sunday before testing?

    Twinkle, hope you're begining to feel a bit better. Teacher guilt is awful isn't it. Still don't wish for an office job though :cool:

    Good luck everyone, here's to lot of BFPs with very very sticky beans for everyone soon!

    xxx
    Updating soon...
  • Thomas77
    Thomas77 Posts: 21 Forumite
    half the price of boots in ebay, brand new !!
  • Courgette wrote: »
    Morning all,

    Still off sick and going even stircrazier if that's both a word and possible. Have marked some year 11 exams this morning, managed about 2/3rds before the dizziness struck again so I'm trying to look on the positive side especially as it's still quite early. Truth is, I'm ever so fed up now and actually don't think I'm gonna be well enough tomorrow. Will go in and see but teaching just isn't a job you can give less than 100% to. We'll see.

    Confuzzled, I'm getting really excited for you now. I know I shouldn't but you're a little way overdue now. Do you really reckon you'll hang on til Sunday before testing?

    Twinkle, hope you're begining to feel a bit better. Teacher guilt is awful isn't it. Still don't wish for an office job though :cool:

    Good luck everyone, here's to lot of BFPs with very very sticky beans for everyone soon!

    xxx
    Courgette we're well overdue a few bfps me thinks!!:rolleyes: And i really sympathise with you, there's nothing worse than being told to rest, it makes you want to do more than usual......or is that just me?!:confused:
    Yep will deffo hang on testing til Sun:D My reasons(incase you're wondering) are: don't feel pg IYKWIM, I'm really scared of testing and getting a BFN, mentioned it to DH last night and he rolled his eyes and said 'whatever':eek::mad: which in turn makes me doubt myself:( I know it's his way of self-preservation but not exactly encouragement is it?!:rolleyes: and also Sunday will be the best day as if it's BFN i have the day to mope and if it's BFP then we get to spend the day together in complete shock:D
    Hope you feel better soon chick xx

    Welcome back to 1more:) How are you?

    jcr I'm sure the negative comments are just people being wary as you're not wanting the average 2.4 kids etc Most people today think if you have 1 child of each sex then thats enough:rolleyes: So long as you can afford more kids I don't see how it's anyone elses business:) x

    Thomas77 :spam: reported!
    1.11.09 - debt = £45k:eek:
    [STRIKE]Car Loan = £0[/STRIKE] CCCS Total = £30,246.88 Total Debt Paid off - 32.78%
    DFD [STRIKE]Nov[/STRIKE][STRIKE]Sept[/STRIKE]Aug 2018:o Only 75 payments to go:)
  • Morning all - CD4 for me today and AF is on the way out :T so operation BUBS2010 is firmally on its way.

    Hope you poorly lot are feeling better soon, there are so many bugs and colds going around at the moment...my 18 yr old son has been in bed for two days with a heavy cold lol...bless his size 11's.

    I am really chuffed as I have lost another 1lb...only 33lbs to go :D ...2lbs is quite good really as it has only been five days since I officially started eating healthy and exercising.
    I have been taking folic acid, EPO and a multi vit for three weeks and I shall keep up with those as my skin is starting to glow.

    Can you add me to the testing list please - 31st of October. Halloween testing mwhahahaha :rotfl:...hopefully a BFP.

    Hope you all have a nice day (I am off work today yay!:T), let's have a few BFPs this month, hugs to those feeling poorly or blue :heartpuls and babydust all around.
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