Trying For a Baby III

moneyangel22

Morning ladies!

I'm confused this month. Firstly the stress of bd'ing all the time is taking its toll and me and OH had a talk last night about how we dont feel sexy anymore, he feels everytime we bd its just to ttc....I explained that its not even possible for 3 weeks of the month so when I jump on him then its not for that reason! He gets it, but I think subconsciously he will always think that. How do you guys keep things sexy?

Also I'm on cd23 and I havent ov'd yet...been using opks and I usually ov at between cd17 and cd20....even at my longest cycle...the only time i didnt ov it turns out i was pg and didnt know till I had a mc (July).

If thats the case again though it means I must have conceived straight after my mc...is that possible? Im worried now because a hpt didnt pick it up last time. I dont feel pg though but it would only be about 4 weeks (same as when i had mc) and i didnt know then.

Im still going to keep bd'ing for a few days in case i do ov, but i really dont think im going to get a pos on opk's this month. This is going to be the worst 2ww ever!

smartie12

Morning

Oooo confuzzled.... looking good;) The spotting I've been getting is brownish. A tiny tiny amount during night then some reddish blood this morning which made me think the heavy flow was gonna start... but nothing now

Cramping has stopped.

My routine blood test is tomorrow at 10.20. Was going to ask receptionist is I could have PG bloods done as well or would I have to see a doctor to organise it.... but I got scared and didn't:o I thought I might jinx AF to start if I had a PG blood test booked!:rotfl:

If nothing has happened by tomorrow I WILL ask while I'm there if I can have the extra blood taken

Oh and I was very sick last night!

twinklie

Confuzzled, smartie I still have everything crossed for both of you. So much so that I feel I might burst!!

**confuzzled**

twinklie wrote: »

It's all good in the twinklie household. However, I'm builder sitting. He's a lovely LOVELY bloke, but I have work to do and he likes a chat! I'm going to have to start exercising...I'm getting a little tum on me. I've put on half a stone over the holidays...oophs!

Still, if I got that job I'd have more time to go to the gym! Another good reason to apply. This time next week I should of had the chat with the head. Scary stuff!!

Oh I hope you get the job, would be perfect for you in so many ways:D
Hows the builder doing?? Is he a young cute one? Orare you about as lucky as me and get the old ones near retirement who think it's ok to flash their backsides at you?:rotfl:

moneyangel22 wrote: »

Morning ladies!

I'm confused this month. Firstly the stress of bd'ing all the time is taking its toll and me and OH had a talk last night about how we dont feel sexy anymore, he feels everytime we bd its just to ttc....I explained that its not even possible for 3 weeks of the month so when I jump on him then its not for that reason! He gets it, but I think subconsciously he will always think that. How do you guys keep things sexy?

Also I'm on cd23 and I havent ov'd yet...been using opks and I usually ov at between cd17 and cd20....even at my longest cycle...the only time i didnt ov it turns out i was pg and didnt know till I had a mc (July).

If thats the case again though it means I must have conceived straight after my mc...is that possible? Im worried now because a hpt didnt pick it up last time. I dont feel pg though but it would only be about 4 weeks (same as when i had mc) and i didnt know then.

Im still going to keep bd'ing for a few days in case i do ov, but i really dont think im going to get a pos on opk's this month. This is going to be the worst 2ww ever!

I think it is possible to conceive after a mc but if it's your 1st AF after mc then you could be in for a long wait, some people go back to almost normal and othes can be waiting ages. Fingers crossed it's either the 1st one or that AF won't turn up at all:)

smartie12 wrote: »

Morning

Oooo confuzzled.... looking good;) The spotting I've been getting is brownish. A tiny tiny amount during night then some reddish blood this morning which made me think the heavy flow was gonna start... but nothing now
Thats what I thought yesterday when had a streak of blood when I wiped but nothing! So annoying isn't it!

Cramping has stopped.

My routine blood test is tomorrow at 10.20. Was going to ask receptionist is I could have PG bloods done as well or would I have to see a doctor to organise it.... but I got scared and didn't:o I thought I might jinx AF to start if I had a PG blood test booked!:rotfl:

If nothing has happened by tomorrow I WILL ask while I'm there if I can have the extra blood taken

Oh and I was very sick last night!

I think you should ask for the pg test to be done at the same time, will put your mind at rest and you'll hopefully find out whats going on:)
!!!!!!! I won't be here when you get your results back though:( No fair!

**confuzzled**

Aww thanks Twinklie:D:D I'm testing tomorrow, if I remember to get a test later that is:rolleyes:

bitzer_maloney

confuzzled - signs look good (I do that with white knickers too, it always works for me :rolleyes:) As for the ice cream, well we think the freezer had been off for at least 4 days before we noticed so all that was inside was mush. Thank heavens I keep everything in [STRIKE]ocd organised and labelled[/STRIKE] tidy ziploc bags. Made emptying it much easier! Still, getting a new A++ Bosch tomorrow so OH will have a new toy to keep him quiet..

smartie - sounds good too hon, do ask them tomorrow, at least to set your mind at rest.

CD6 here, off work as am going to the dentist, combining it with a trip to see my mum (a day of joy all round then :rolleyes:) but getting some house jobs done first. Dull dull dull...

Testing List
Thu 3rd Sep - Confuzzled
Fri 4th Sep - Nunnygirl
Wed 9th Sep - Snugglepants
Sun 6th Sep - Nicenursie
Sun 13th Sep - Penny35
Tue 15th Sep - Jacqhale
Fri 18th Sep - Moneyangel22
Sun 20th Sep - Twinklie
Wed 23rd Sep - Bitzer
Fri 25th Sep - Suzy

moneyangel22

Hi Confuzzled,

No its not 1st AF since mc....had my AF at normal time at end of cycle following AF. (Had my first AF after the time i must have conceived that time too) so AF showing last month doesnt mean Im not pg apparantely! I just think im one of these people with low hormone levels so a hpg doesnt pick it up. I know I ov'd last month (the cycle following mc) so if I am pg that must have been when i conceived. Its hard not to get my hopes up!

nunnygirl

Bitzer, hope it didn't make too much of a mess for you

I'm so glad I can see my fridge from where I'm sitting and I can hear it dropping the temperature, I couldn't imagine my fridge breaking down

Smartie, hope you get some answers soon hun:T

Confuzzled, don't forget the test

CD35 for me now and I've just been looking over my chart. My CP has been high and closed for a week now

**confuzzled**

bitzer_maloney wrote: »

confuzzled - signs look good (I do that with white knickers too, it always works for me :rolleyes:) As for the ice cream, well we think the freezer had been off for at least 4 days before we noticed so all that was inside was mush. Thank heavens I keep everything in [STRIKE]ocd organised and labelled[/STRIKE] tidy ziploc bags. Made emptying it much easier! Still, getting a new A++ Bosch tomorrow so OH will have a new toy to keep him quiet..

CD6 here, off work as am going to the dentist, combining it with a trip to see my mum (a day of joy all round then :rolleyes:) but getting some house jobs done first. Dull dull dull...

The white knickers normally does the trick but no joy so far! I'm almost physically stopping myself from getting excited lol
Oh yay, I'm not the only one OCD with freezer bags:T DH thinks I'm mental, but he can always find what he's looking for:D
Hope the dentist isn't mean to you, mine always decides something needs doing:mad: With any luck next time I go(Oct)I'll be pg and not have to pay:D

moneyangel22 wrote: »

Hi Confuzzled,

No its not 1st AF since mc....had my AF at normal time at end of cycle following AF. (Had my first AF after the time i must have conceived that time too) so AF showing last month doesnt mean Im not pg apparantely! I just think im one of these people with low hormone levels so a hpg doesnt pick it up. I know I ov'd last month (the cycle following mc) so if I am pg that must have been when i conceived. Its hard not to get my hopes up!

Tell me about it! I get all excited over the slightest twinge:rolleyes: lol
Best to just relax(if u can) and just wait a week or so and see what happens...easier said than done! Fingers crossed for you sweetie x

jacqhale

Good luck for the tests today smartie, I hope you can get pg bloods taken and it will set your mind at rest. Big hugs :grouphug:x
Confuzzled are you testing today or tomorrow? I have the day off tomorrow cos DS starts pre-school so must remember to check in.

CD21 for me with a -ve ov test yesterday so think I will put those to one side and settle in for the 2ww. I was feeling very chilled about the whole thing ... if it doesn't happen more time to lavish on DS, more money etc.... but a friend who I was in hospital with DS has just announced she's pg and my sister has her 12 week scan next week (to spread a little hope to you guys who have so sadly been through the same thing she had a mc in Feb) so now I am all I want it to happen too .... hormones!