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  • hayley11
    hayley11 Posts: 7,627 Forumite
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    I'm really pleased this new rule is being introduced. I absolutely hate seeing a newbie get flamed because they've asked a "stupid" question or because people think they are trolling/lying.

    I saw on a thread recently, somebody was asking for advice, some people thought they were lying, somebody said the fact they only had three posts meant they were lying :confused: We all only had three posts at some point or another. It's things like this that put newbies off.
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  • jamespir
    jamespir Posts: 21,456 Forumite
    theres a guy who seems to be flaming the newbies and everyone else goes by the name of thomas best freind he is calling people pathetic losers and scum because they asked questions for example what benifits can i get while pregant or somone asked baout buying out of date food can somone just ban him please hes definitly a troll
    Replies to posts are always welcome, If I have made a mistake in the post, I am human, tell me nicely and it will be corrected. If your reply cannot be nice, has an underlying issue, or you believe that you are God, please post in another forum. Thank you
  • hayley11
    hayley11 Posts: 7,627 Forumite
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    jamespir wrote: »
    theres a guy who seems to be flaming the newbies and everyone else goes by the name of thomas best freind he is calling people pathetic losers and scum because they asked questions for example what benifits can i get while pregant or somone asked baout buying out of date food can somone just ban him please hes definitly a troll

    I agree. He's out to cause trouble and nothing else.
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  • chriszzz
    chriszzz Posts: 879 Forumite
    chriszzz wrote: »
    I love this site :T Am just finding my way around it!! and ive posted replies :p and been thanked, so am doing ok so far, I have had some blunt answers though, but hey am thicked skinned :D. It is a fantastic site that covers every rea of life:T. What would we have done without it?? gotta be better than counselling lol. I think every household needs Mr :money: to show them the way to manage their finances especially with the greedy companies and banks that we have to deal reguarly.
    I will be here for some time yet, so that i can also learn how to get the best!!

    :j
    oh yea!! can somebody plz shed some light on why at the end of my post i have, edit. quote when other posts have thanks and quote, what am i doing wrong??
  • Quasar
    Quasar Posts: 121,720 Forumite
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    jamespir wrote: »
    theres a guy who seems to be flaming the newbies and everyone else goes by the name of thomas best freind he is calling people pathetic losers and scum because they asked questions for example what benifits can i get while pregant or somone asked baout buying out of date food can somone just ban him please hes definitly a troll

    James, has anyone reported this user? Admin can only act if they get reports about this person otherwise they won't know about these objectionable posts.
    Be careful who you open up to. Today it's ears, tomorrow it's mouth.
  • jamespir
    jamespir Posts: 21,456 Forumite
    Quasar wrote: »
    James, has anyone reported this user? Admin can only act if they get reports about this person otherwise they won't know about these objectionable posts.

    im not sure it wont let me do it it tries to open out look which i dont have so if anyone could do it that would be great
    Replies to posts are always welcome, If I have made a mistake in the post, I am human, tell me nicely and it will be corrected. If your reply cannot be nice, has an underlying issue, or you believe that you are God, please post in another forum. Thank you
  • zzzLazyDaisy
    zzzLazyDaisy Posts: 12,497 Forumite
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    chriszzz wrote: »
    oh yea!! can somebody plz shed some light on why at the end of my post i have, edit. quote when other posts have thanks and quote, what am i doing wrong??

    You're not doing anything wrong, that's how it is supposed to be. Its because you might want to thank other posters, but you might want to edit your own post. It's the same for all of us, we all see our own posts that way :D
    I'm a retired employment solicitor. Hopefully some of my comments might be useful, but they are only my opinion and not intended as legal advice.
  • hayley11
    hayley11 Posts: 7,627 Forumite
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    Quasar wrote: »
    James, has anyone reported this user? Admin can only act if they get reports about this person otherwise they won't know about these objectionable posts.

    I've just reported him. He's a horrid little troll. Let's hope he gets PPR'd before long. :D
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  • jamespir
    jamespir Posts: 21,456 Forumite
    Quasar wrote: »
    James, has anyone reported this user? Admin can only act if they get reports about this person otherwise they won't know about these objectionable posts.

    i jsut sent an email to abuse mentiong the offenders action s in the one thread but hes made 27 posts in different threads which means we have to report each one i take it
    Replies to posts are always welcome, If I have made a mistake in the post, I am human, tell me nicely and it will be corrected. If your reply cannot be nice, has an underlying issue, or you believe that you are God, please post in another forum. Thank you
  • sidefx
    sidefx Posts: 1,235 Forumite
    jamespir wrote: »
    im not sure it wont let me do it it tries to open out look which i dont have so if anyone could do it that would be great

    I don't either but I hope someone does report him, he is bad news!
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